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Chestnut
11 Jun
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all💜
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Honeybee
Guide
13 Jun
💯 Truth 😁❤️💯🤟
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Bear
13 Jun
My dhudheh boob gettings bigger
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Koala
14 Jun
Don’t let anyone tell you anything less than you’re amazing! Everyone is beautiful💕
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Koala
21 Jun
Your worth is NOT determined by a number on the scale. Love yourself!
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Sunflower
27 Jun
I realized something in the past year I struggled a lot being an endomorph and I just had to get used to being bigger than other people because even at 0 percent body fat I would be around 210 lb calorie in/calorie out is also important but the most important thing is just health. It's not about comparing yourself to others(something I did for years) it's about yourself. If anyone else is an endomorph just know your not alone
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Sunflower
4 Jul
I lost 14 pounds and I want to lose a lot more but I’m not trying to impress anyone out here I’m just doing it so I can improve my health and feel better and no I’m not on any specific diet and mind you I work in a hospital kitchen and cafeteria and that food to me got me like🤢 after seeing all the by products and seeing how unhealthy some of the foods are to your body I’ve slowly been losing weight by eating less and drinking lots of water and cutting back on sodas
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Hedgehog
5 Jul
I’ve always had a love hate relationship with my body. I was teased growing up for being too skinny. My weight now goes up but when stressed I eat less and lose weight rapidly. Im in constant anxiety because I was to maintain my weight and i overeat to keep from losing but I know it’s not healthy. Idk when I look in the mirror I see more flaws than anything.
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Honeybee
Guide
6 Jul
I have fear of speed bumps. But, I am slowly getting over it. 😎
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Popcorn
Helper
10 Jul
I went from 130 and feeling overweight at five feet tall, and got in an accident and now I’m 180. My back, stomach, abdomen, and ribs hurt. Does anyone have any recommendations. Drinking less soda def works
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Chipmunk
Helper
10 Jul
Howdy! I’m new to this community. Nice to meet you all 😎
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Koala
11 Jul
All bodies are beautiful!💕
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Tropical Fish
12 Jul
Remember that it is impossible to be perfect! And you are who you are meant to be!
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Popcorn
Helper
12 Jul
Nice to meet you, too! I’m also a newbie.
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Popcorn
Helper
12 Jul
I have been really depressed and anxious and lonely. I don’t go out often bc I am disabled. Yesterday I got my hair done and I was feeling a little less depressed, and then I get into a ride share (not sure if we can name companies here) with a mask on. The driver’s car smelled like smoke thru my N95. He asked me in an irritated tone with angry inflection why I was wearing a mask if I don’t have to anymore. I said I am immunocompromised and I have to, still. He kept prying so I said it’s genetic (it is), and he said I’m sick because I’m fat. I told him I was in an accident and was in a wheelchair for a while and just started walking and can’t go to the gym bc of COVID and being high-risk. He said, “what’s that have to do with anything? You’re sick bc you eat bread and sugar (I never discussed my diet). I told him I saw a nutritionist and she said I needed to eat a healthy amount of those things and have a balanced meal. He said she should be fired because, “look at you… you’re fat”. He totally killed my buzz and idk why some people just want to hurt others. People can be overweight for many reasons beyond their control, and even if it’s by choice, he has no right to say that. I suffered with anorexia and bulimia since I was eleven. I told him that. And that’s why I saw a nutritionist and they did intuitive eating. The issue is my metabolism. I hardly eat. How can people be so mean? Now I feel ugly again. I really needed to feel better and this was a splurge. I’m also disappointed in myself for letting him get to me.
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Canoe
Helper
15 Jul
Hi all, i’m new here. I have a bad relationship with food and my body image and have always hated my curves yet I continue eating and then will have days where I starve myself..i’m not even sure if this is a disorder I just needed to reach out because it just feels like a vicious cycle
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Popcorn
Helper
15 Jul
Hey, Zara. I see we are in a lot of the same groups. I also have suffered with eating disorders since I was eleven. I’m also what people refer to as “curvy”. People from my culture tend to be a bit more so than some other cultures I was around, and I was comparing myself to them. In my culture, curvy is considered preferable and always has been. Now, I’ve learned to accept my body, and even though I am overweight, I noticed when I act confident, guys in their early and mid 20s are attracted to me. Too young for me to date, but flattering! Some men love curves.
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Popcorn
Helper
15 Jul
And women :)
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Tiger
Guide
15 Jul
When Lizzo said “I’m so glad that you’re still with us, broken but damn your still perfect” I couldn’t handle it. Being human is no small feat & i’m glad to still be here, i’m glad you’re still here.
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Tropical Fish
17 Jul
🎶Hi everyone! Please join us for a music trivia happening on Zoom in 10 mins! Session link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9837306043 - Let's add some tunes to this Sunday!! 💜
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Koala
19 Jul
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Tiger
Guide
19 Jul
Happy Tuesday! Keep pushing today, don't let the world get you down. I know it can be rough out there, but you've got this!! I BELIEVE IN YOU 😁👍 Drink some water and take things one step at a time
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Bear
20 Jul
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Sunflower
22 Jul
I get judged by women all the time because of my weight and quite frankly in the past I was affected by it and was sad because those women were shallow and instead of valuing someone’s character and personality they instantly looked at me and didn’t even bother talking to me.I’m slowly but surely losing weight but it’s because I want to because of my overall health and when I get to my desired weight I’m going to be happy and that’s all that matters.I’m a guy that appreciates a woman big or small and instead of placing judgment on them I rather get to know them from the inside out.I know plenty of people men and women alike that are lonely and sad because they feel ugly and I tell them have more confidence in yourself and learn to love yourself first who cares what anyone thinks
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Deciduous Tree
22 Jul
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all❤️🥰
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Fox
23 Jul
Hi there 👋 I’m new here - feel free to introduce yourself
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Fox
23 Jul
How's everyone doing?
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Fox
23 Jul
I'm nick
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Fox
23 Jul
I'm 38 and am just now learning to be body positive
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Tiger
Guide
23 Jul
If no one has told you today, I’m glad you’re here. This world is lucky to have you. You’re great, just the way you are🤟🏼
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Giraffe
Helper
23 Jul
Hi everybody. Great to meet you all 🙌
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Tennis
Helper
30 Jul
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all💜
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Tiger
Guide
1 Aug
Sometimes I look in the mirror and my insecurities aren't there and I am like damn Jay Jay, sometimes you really can be a whole ass snack. 😉
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Bear
1 Aug
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all
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Tropical Fish
Guide
5 Aug
2nd day in a row at the gym 😅🙏🌟 I will sleep well for sure, knackered after the elliptical at the end , 20 minutes. Have a good rest of your day my friends! Bed time here
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Tiger
Guide
17 Aug
Good morning fam! ☀️ 💚 ☕️ Got my workout in this morning and feeling great! Today, I encourage you to take a few minutes of your day to reflect on 3 things you love about yourself. I’ll go first: love my empathy, discipline and problem-solving skills.
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Hamster
Helper
21 Aug
Hi guys! Many of us are having problems replying to individual messages requesting help! Wisdo are working on this! A workaround that a few of us have found is to put a message on that chat asking the person to DM us as that part of the system seems to be fairly stable at present! Hope this helps!
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Tropical Fish
Helper
29 Aug
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all
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Bear
29 Aug
Helo i needing advice on body
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Koala
30 Aug
I had a hard day today trying to find clothes in Walmart for cheap and fast but when I loook the plus size section All the closing options are old lady going to church with her granddaughter with very bad styles the way they fit my body and it just made me so upset and I need to lose weight but I having a hard time motivating myself and I’m having a hard time loving my self and it’s affecting my relationship I don’t know what to do
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Sunflower
3 Sep
Some women and I stated some like to judge guys that are chubby and I learned to care less about what these conceited women think about me.I’m losing weight but it’s because I’m focusing on becoming healthier and it’s making me feel good inside.But once I get to my desired weight the next woman I talk to I’m going to ask specifically what do you think about men that are overweight?The instant they give me that ms ugly on a man they’re dismissed f that
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Lemon
5 Sep
Hello everyone, I doubt that I will find a handsome soulmate with how unattractive I am. I feel as though to find one. I need to lose at least 80 to 100 pounds and receive plastic surgery. Since I am currently not skinny, I think that most young handsome men will find me unattractive. I feel most handsome men find skinny women attractive, especially models, because it appears in advertisements, billboards, films, magazines, music, social media, etc. Therefore, I want to match up to those expectations since I honestly feel like an insecure outsider. Thus, I am tempted to consume weight loss pills, especially supplements. Nevertheless, even though some of you may not care to respond to my story, I am glad that I expressed my feelings so that my Instagram and Facebook friends can comprehend the dangers of social media and weight gain. Regards, Kristen
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Koala
5 Sep
You know i don’t know if it just me but I literally have the worst relationship with food and you know I’ll eat and then I feel bad about myself and then I want to starve myself but then I’m like damn I’m hungry ..
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Sun
Helper
12 Oct
Hey 👋 just come back to the app. I feel like my ankles and feet are falling apart
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Chestnut
24 Oct
!m in this weird in between phase where I like my body and I’m actually learning to accept that I’m not skinny, but it’s frustrating because there are people in my life that constantly tell me I need to “take care of myself”
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Sun
25 Oct
hi i need help talking to a friend who struggles w an ED if anyone could message me that would be awesome
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Fox
28 Oct
This may be a weird question to ask, but online searches are confusing me. I’ve never worn makeup before, but I would like to try eye makeup. I don’t have a mother, or older sister to ask questions to, and I’m pretty isolated. Does anyone know what kind of eye makeup I need to buy as a complete beginner? I have no idea where to start!
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Sunflower
29 Oct
I’m always upbeat and positive even though I’m not where I want to be health wise with my weight and I’m not trying to lose weight to gain confidence and self esteem I’m doing it to feel more healthy.At first I was trying to lose weight so I can become more appealing to women in general but now I could care less what the next person thinks of me.Same as I don’t judge anyone by their looks so why should anyone instantly judge me by my physical appearance without getting to know me for my personality and what I can offer the person emotionally.I grew tired of being rejected because of my looks and weight and said f it.If the person can’t appreciate me regardless of my looks they don’t deserve to get to know me so now I have that it’s your loss attitude ❤️
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Chipmunk
Helper
1 Nov
I love making these and encouraging more plus sized women to wear what they want to 💜 no more trips home from the mall crying over clothing that doesn't fit and isn't stylish. I fit every queen personally. this is one for my friends mom I made.
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Chipmunk
Helper
1 Nov
Happy Halloween Yall! 🎃 hope everyone dressed up and had fun! 🐈‍⬛️
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Sun
Helper
1 Nov
Another challenge. Sunburn and blisters, dressing wouldn’t stay on so had to put a new one on and put a bandage over my feet
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