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Pineapple
8 Apr
I don’t feel like I’ll ever truly love someone
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Lemon
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8 Apr
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Lemon
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8 Apr
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Guitar
10 Apr
Hello, I’ve just joined! I’m not exactly sure what to say and what to expect. In complete honesty I am in search of help/guidance, and really just someone to talk things out with.
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Koala
Helper
10 Apr
Just a question - Is there any way to find a post on a Wisdo community that I have written quite a while ago that I want to read the response that someone else had left for me? It was a very good explanation of BPD that was posted for me because I didn’t know much about it. I want to share it with my family. Is there any way to find that post again? I just saw it a couple of hours ago and now can’t find it.
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Mushroom
11 Apr
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳
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Mushroom
12 Apr
Hello, I’m wanting to talk about bpd and being in a relationship. It’s so hard! 😩
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Tennis
Helper
12 Apr
i quit my meds they were not helpin any tips on how to cope with the withdrawal symptoms
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Mushroom
14 Apr
Any good book recommendations?
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Maple Leaf
14 Apr
Should I quit my job? I hate it but only work it for the title/status (it’s a good government job and people respect me so much when I tell them what I do) however I hate it I’d rather be a bartender
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Mushroom
15 Apr
I really need to talk to someone so I don’t end up texting who I shouldn’t.
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Tennis
Helper
15 Apr
what type of borderline are you?
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Hedgehog
Helper
15 Apr
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all💜
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Hibiscus
16 Apr
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳. I’m having a really hard time understanding all my disorders and it’s affecting me and my relationship. :( I feel so alone I want to end it all just not coping
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Mushroom
17 Apr
I have to cancel my membership tomorrow because I can’t afford this 😩 and I really need it right now.
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Lemon
Helper
22 Apr
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Lemon
24 Apr
hi, i’m looking for advice on how to maintain friendships in spite of irrational reactions to small occurrences. i get really upset with a few people i’m close to over things that they don’t consider big deals. i don’t really know what to do about it
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Ice Cream
Helper
25 Apr
Hello, I’m new here and I’m hoping to connect and gain insight for myself on how to deal with BPD in my relationships.
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Evergreen Tree
25 Apr
I really need someone. I waited 3 hrs with the hotline and nobody ever came. I just need someone so bad.
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Ice Cream
Helper
25 Apr
#me
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frisbee
Helper
26 Apr
Anxious
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Lemon
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26 Apr
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Ice Cream
Helper
27 Apr
Is anyone available to talk? I need some advice.
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Lemon
Helper
27 Apr
Aly, I am almost always here in the mornings until I start PT and then it will be later please message me if you need to talk about anything
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Lemon
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27 Apr
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Tennis
Helper
28 Apr
what happened when you knew your Diagnosis and how did it affect your life?
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Ice Cream
Helper
1 May
I need an honest opinion. What would you think if your boyfriend, who you only got to see on weekends, wanted to hangout with his friends for a whole weekend without you?
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Hedgehog
4 May
Im struggling with going from sex to drinking to eating, etc.
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Ice Cream
Helper
4 May
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Ice Cream
Helper
4 May
If anyone wants to talk message me ☀️
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Tennis
Helper
4 May
do you think it is a good idea to let your new friends know that you have bpd ?
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Ice Cream
Helper
6 May
“When my heart breaks a little bit, I wanna drop dead,” this lyric hit me deep! I think it describes a part of BPD so well!
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Pineapple
7 May
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳
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Ice Cream
Helper
7 May
I’m alone for the rest of the weekend. I don’t know what to do. I’m so sad and I have no one.
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Ice Cream
Helper
8 May
Any book recommendations that are about BPD?
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Ice Cream
Helper
10 May
Why can’t I just enjoy the now!?!? Why does my brain keep making up problems. I hate it so much! I’m having so much anxiety and sadness right now and I have no one to talk to.
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Lemon
Helper
10 May
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Full Moon
Friday
How do you try to stay positive when it seems the universe is against you ?
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Evergreen Tree
Friday
I just need some comfort and company. But I don't want to be around anyone. I just need someone hold my mind and heart for a min while I feel like I can't. 😞
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Bear
Helper
Saturday
Not one to self diagnose but I did DBT (therapy) a few years back because of trauma and how it affected and still affects my life .. how I coped/cope with it.. my emotions being unregulated and to heal from all the toxic relationships and friendships I had. They kept bringing up “people with bpd tend to” and I never got a proper diagnosis but the group therapist would lead with that statement and it got me thinking.. am I? Maybe? At 14 I got diagnosed with major depression and generalized anxiety but I have had so many traumatic experiences with sexual abuse and assault and verbal and mental/emotional abuse since I was 8 till 22 and I’m 24 now.. I just feel like what I’ve gone through has been so complex that I may have ptsd or cptsd or bpd.. considering bpd stems from trauma and it’s like a big part of my life.. a personality thing for me. I’m always questioning myself and my self image. A lot of you know me and I’m an active helper here! But I’m on this group for a little bit of a selfish gain. Would love to have people walk this journey with and to connect about this with me. I’m currently thinking of seeing someone to get a new diagnosis, a psychiatrist who will evaluate me. Anyways- hi! Nice to meet you all 🤗🙂🫶🏼
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Elephant
Saturday
My alter ego says Whatup
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Owl
Helper
Sunday
Does anyone have some healthy ways to deal with with borderline boredom connected to the feeling of emptiness? I have never really been impulsive enough for it to be harmful, but it is annoying. Trying to resist the urge to go on a shopping spree with the justification that I need new cute summer clothes to build a better sense of self and look cool to fit In with a certain group of girls that fit the typical ‘cool instagram girl’ image. Kinda embarassing lol
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Ice Cream
Helper
Monday
Should my FP know they are my FP?
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Chipmunk
Helper
Monday
I just completely lost my shit on my girlfriend, for no reason other than me just feeling a tiny amount of emotion towards a bad emotion, I lost grip of myself mentally for a second and that one second completely took over my entire mood. I hate myself for letting myself slip up, because I’ve been slipping up a lot lately. I know she says she understand my disorder and honestly she understands it more than me.. but I still feel so fucking bad for everything I put her through, she deserves way better than the ugly side of me, I just wish I could erase the borderline side of me so she could keep the side of me that treats her well with her at all times. I don’t know how I’m going to but I’m going to fix this before I hear her upset one more time over my random outbursts over tiny little things. 😔 I love her way too much to keep hurting her..
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Fox
3:38 PM
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all💜
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Fox
3:43 PM
Hi I need a advice I have emotional unstable personality disorder anxiety and depression mixed with learning difficulties I have a new job now live on my own still doing things to help my self like going to the gym play Xbox do my book like 1 to 10 good and bad things diagrams like thought and feelings emotional and behaviour and I do dear diary keep tidying up my flat see my mum but the real problem is that I have had a Tone like an attitude since I was little when I was in foster care and I haven’t got a solution how to control it and it is really affecting me in a way at the moment I don’t know what to do I have been to the mental health team I just don’t know what else to do in a way and I’m really low at the moment I feel like I’m fat and ugly and I am losing weight I don’t know what else I can do so can I have the voice of how to sort out a time please thank you 😭😭😭😭😭
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Koala
Helper
4:04 PM
Hi Angela. It sounds like you are really hurting right now even though you are busy and doing a lot of things to care for yourself. When you say “Tone” do you mean a bad attitude? Or maybe the tone of your voice? I’m just a little confused.
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Koala
Helper
4:06 PM
Or just the way you feel about yourself?
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Tennis
Helper
8:11 PM
what do you do to beat severe mood swings?
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Lemon
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9:01 PM
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Lemon
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