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Fox
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14 Apr
My friends and I always have had zoom hangouts once every couple of months and we all usually drink. One of my friends has been dealing with alcoholism and has been sober for a couple of months now. Idk if it’s insensitive if everyone still drinks of it they just put it in no obvious glasses so. Or maybe do where everyone can bring a drink and put it in a random glass or cup and it can be alcoholic or non alcoholic. What’s the best thing to do? Or should I just ask her how she feels? I wanted to ask other people’s opinions first before I go to her because I don’t want to make her uncomfortable
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Sun
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19 Apr
You should ask your friend how she feels about it. Odds are that she wouldn't be there if it bothered her. The worst thing you can do is try to hide it from her. She would feel that she is causing every one else to not have a good time. That's worse. If she had a problem she wouldn't be there or at least stay y there. She has to find her pun level just like you.
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Sun
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19 Oct
That's some real good advice. If you try to hide the fact that you are drinking an alcoholic beverage they will no doubt know it. My name is Jeff & I'm an alcoholic.
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