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HedgehogAuthor
28 Jul
I wake up every morning to my ex messaging me to get rid of our unborn baby it’s been going on for 2 weeks now and it’s getting worse. He threatened to kill his self if I don’t - I’m definitely having this baby but 😭😭😭😭 abusive comments are NOT THE ONE! Any tips/ help I’m getting so depressed and I’m 2 months pregnant
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OwlGuide
28 Jul
I'm so sorry you're experiencing such difficulty. It's really not okay how he's treating you. Are you able to block him until he can be more reasonable? No one needs that energy in their lives, especially when you're working hard to keep yourself and baby healthy 💜
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HedgehogAuthor
28 Jul
Yes I blocked him this morning, I’m just going to try, stay positive for the health of my and my unborn child.. and if that means blocking him until he comes around then so be it. It’s been a difficult few weeks for me! I just really hope it gets better. Thank you 🤍😪
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HedgehogHelper
28 Jul
Congratulations on taking steps to take care of the two of you. I’m sorry to say that it sounds like it might be an uphill battle trying to squeeze anything supportive from him, but maybe that’s the good news? Maybe make your peace with it and move on? Fun idea? Grab some magazines and cut out pictures of what you want your life and your baby’s life to be like. You can go crazy and glue your favorites to a piece of poster board. You could hang it up and it would remind you of the life you have to look forward to, and hopefully encourage you whenever you happen to get down…. Hang in there!
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OwlHelper
30 Jul
Have you tried telling him he doesn’t have to be apart of it. He doesn’t have to give any money or do anything. He can just block your number and forget it’s even his baby? Cause I can’t imagine that won’t work. Gives him no reason to even care
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