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Rabbit
11 Apr
@ Ashley J thank you! I'm ok.
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Owl
11 Apr
I went to a special meeting yesterday. It was really good. It was really insightful. There is something that she mentioned that I had forgotten about. I had forgotten that you are technically still in the early stage and new when you're within the first 5 years of losing your child. My son died in 2019. I had just gotten to the point last September where I was not overwhelmed by grief. I was in The grieving process but I was mostly healed. Something that she talked about was that being healed is not putting this tragic event in the past but being healed means that you were able to live again and actually want to live life. I never got to the point where I wanted to live life again. But, I was able to function on a day-to-day basis without too many overwhelming emotions. When my daughter died this past december, everything went back to square one. I don't eat anymore. I try to cope but my coping skills are not always the best. I have forced myself to have two pieces of toast today. I don't want to get up in the morning. I don't want to do anything. My mind goes blank. This is the reality of losing a child. I go to work and turn off my emotions so I am present and don't look like I'm about to break. I am physically nauseous and throwing up. I got myself sick with a 24 hour cold or stomach bug over the weekend. My body does this when I need to slow down. I really don't know how much longer I can handle this. And then, I thought of this quote. It is Italian but the translation of it says this, "In the end, everything will be fine. If it is not fine, It is not the end." So, as I choose to sit with my emotions this evening and not drink them away, I will think of this quote.
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Sun
12 Apr
Im feeling so so bad its trying to eat away the rest of me. And i have no power to fight back im s
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Koala
13 Apr
I’m currently 7 mos pregnant & just lost my fiancé to suicide on Sunday. I have anger & definitely a lot of guilt inside of me. This does not feel real at all, it feels like a big nightmare that I can’t wake up from.
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Evergreen Tree
14 Apr
I just want to feel some comfort. Tom is my mom's 1st birthday in heaven.. my dad passed last nov. Idk how to get thru this.
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Tiger
17 Apr
Hello everyone! I'm new around here. Approaching 2 years without my baby boy, he was 20 yo when he left us. Lost him to an accidental drowning. Still trying to push through this life,hoping to find/give help where I can.
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Lemon
18 Apr
Hello everyone! Im having a hard time dealing with the loss of someone very special to me. She passed 10 months ago but it still feels like yesterday. I’m starting to forget what she sounds like and I feel horrible. I just don’t know how to cope without this person
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Umbrella
Helper
19 Apr
How is everyone doing?
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Octopus
20 Apr
Hi, i miss my mum even more as time goes on. She's been gone 29 years but it seems to just get harder every year. She was my best friend and the only person who has ever or will ever love me unconditionally. It would've been her 79th birthday next Wednesday and i wonder what we would've been doing if she were still alive. Does it ever get any easier? Will there ever be a time when i don't wish she were here when things are going badly for me?
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Honeybee
21 Apr
can someone message me
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Mango
Guide
21 Apr
I lost my best friend on Monday she had brain cancer. She only found out last week . I'm so heartbroken. I've been able to talk to many of my friends and had to have Tuesday off work. I've lost friends before but not as close as I was to her . Knew her at school since 1995.
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Mushroom
21 Apr
Hi there 👋 I’m new here - feel free to introduce yourself!
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Tropical Fish
22 Apr
Hello! My name is Kelsey. I just lost my dad and buried him today. He was my person.
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Violin
22 Apr
I lost my brother in 2019 I’m just missing him ya know?
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Tropical Fish
22 Apr
I can totally understand that.
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Tropical Fish
22 Apr
I love about an hour from my dad and didn’t see him as often as I would have liked… but I’m trying to wrap my head around the fact that he’s not there any more.
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Lemon
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22 Apr
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Owl
23 Apr
Hi I lost my High School class mate and my Grandma it was very hard for me . They were very important to me.!!!
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Owl
23 Apr
And my Godmother to Aggressive Cancer .!!!
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Grapes
23 Apr
Hi there 👋 I’m new here - feel free to introduce yourself!
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Ice Cream
Helper
24 Apr
hi, i’m not stranger to loss but it never feels easier any time it happens.
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Mushroom
24 Apr
Is it okay to depend on Jesus Christ after loss my half life n career when don't understand what to do
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Evergreen Tree
Helper
24 Apr
Hi there 👋 I’m new here - feel free to introduce yourself!
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Lemon
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25 Apr
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Duck
25 Apr
I lost my mom to a mental illness. I don’t know if I want to process any of the emotions I’m feeling but then maybe I do because I’m here. I feel really confused, sometimes I get angry because of what she did but then I remember it’s not her fault.
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Drum
26 Apr
Been gone for 3 years from this app. Ready to talk and help people who are struggling with anything I am a very opened person have a great day everyone 🫶🏻😇
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Guitar
26 Apr
Howdy! I’m new to this community. Nice to meet you all 😎
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Evergreen Tree
27 Apr
I lost my mom in Jan. And my dad last nov. I'm struggling so hard rn. I just want to feel my mom's touch again. A hug.. anything
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Tiger
27 Apr
After a loss it definitely changes your life forever, after 2 years in I’ve noticed my response have even changed to simple greetings from random people, “good morning”changed to just “morning” responding to “how are you” changed to “ok” or jus “alright”. I can’t say that it’ll ever get better but we have to try our best to get through our very difficult lives now and try to endure until we reunite with our loved ones at the end.
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Chestnut
Helper
27 Apr
Yes I agree, I miss Michael my 18 year old son. He died in a really bad accident in 2017. It least he got to graduate from high school before he became an angel. Love you Michael.
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Octopus
Helper
28 Apr
Howdy! I’m new to this community. Nice to meet you all 😎
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Chestnut
Helper
28 Apr
Nice to meet you too Rawan
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Lemon
Helper
28 Apr
This is amazing. ❤ I spotted a red cardinal in a tree across from my house. It was singing so beautifully. Today we saw the same one in our front yard. Not to mention Friday will make 5 years since my Grandma passed away. Also the pastor we watch talked about red cardinals the same night.🙏🏽❤
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Lemon
Helper
30 Apr
I will hold you in my heart forever Gram. ♥
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Maple Leaf
30 Apr
Hi everyone! I’ve just joined this community. Nice to meet everyone!
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Maple Leaf
30 Apr
Hey my friend past away days ago and idk how to cope I’m really nervous and on edge
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Canoe
2 May
Howdy! I’m new to this community. Nice to meet you all 😎
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Turtle
3 May
Hi I just Loss my friends today 😭😢 Help me
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Turtle
3 May
Ok
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Mango
3 May
My mom was killed in a car wreck a very long time ago, and I don’t think I’ve ever come to terms with it.
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frisbee
7 May
I lost my mum a couple of weeks back. She past away in front of me in the hospital. I was alone and had no idea what was going on. She only went in for a simple procedure hence my brother and sister continued to work. I can’t get those final images out of my head and I can’t help but feel responsible. I was there and I can’t help but feel I could of done something to stop it. I am overwhelmed with guilt! I let her down. I am starting to feel detached from everything and everyone. I don’t think anyone has noticed but I don’t feel a connection with anyone. I just feel so dead inside!
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Deciduous Tree
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7 May
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Maple Leaf
Helper
8 May
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mom’s on earth and in Heaven. Of all the gifts life has to offer, a loving mother is one of the greatest. My mom might be in Heaven but I still celebrate this special day by keeping her memories alive. Hugs to all the mom’s all across the world.
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Lemon
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9 May
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Guitar
9 May
Howdy! I’m new to this community. Nice to meet you all 😎
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Pineapple
Helper
9 May
How is everyone doing today? 🌞
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Trumpet
10 May
Hi! Nice to meet everyone here
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Elephant
10 May
hey guys i’m new
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Trumpet
10 May
Hi everyone I'm new here. I just lost my dad on Sunday
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Honeybee
Helper
Saturday
✨Here are 10 steps to love yourself again after a breakup from gratitude app. ✨ 10 Steps to Love Yourself Again ❤️ 1). Take your time with emotions 2). Don’t pick up unhealthy behavior 3). Do all the things you loved 4). Forgive yourself 5). Give up hate and anger 6). Stay close to your friends 7). Work on yourself 8). Self-reflect 9). Free yourself from their voice 10). Practice gratitude for yourself
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Mango
Guide
Sunday
This coming Wednesday is the funeral of my best friend. I went to see her boyfriend today with my other friend. It was the first time I've seen him since my friend passed away but I spoke to him a few weeks ago for 2 hours on the phone. He looks like he's looking after himself more but only eating one meal a day . I brought him some chocolate so he would eat something. He was very happy for it and too see me and my friend. I'm dreading the funeral. I have some good friends taking me there .
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