My unborn-sickly pregnancy was terminated in winter of 2018, the third birthday would have been the 4th of July had the pregnancy been healthy. The crisis chat line (whom I will be volunteering for soon!) brought me to Wisdo. Therapy, medication, a puppy and Wisdo have significantly improved my wellbeing and hardship with grief. The battle isn’t over, I am just beginning to work through shame, guilt and embarrassment. Please help me out, please tell me what has helped you or someone else through those feelings or messege me? Thank you for everything 💕 This platform saved my life, I wouldn’t be here today without having this place to wake up to knowing I am found and helping others find their way too 😭 Oy Vey… I’m tearing up lol 🫂 much love ❤️🩹
Hi @mo-l-5 I have had to deal with this too. Even now, over 20 years later, I still wonder if something I did caused me to lose my pregnancy 🤗
It can be so hard the things we think about after lossing a child. I unfortunately have delt with this more than once. Helping others and helping remember their children has helped me so much.
Also depression. Also something else. She won’t tell me.
I don’t understand what you’re saying
We can’t help it.
I still dont understand. Help what?
Help feelings of wondering why? Make any sense? Sorry.