Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
Tuesday Time with Dr. Retirement! What's on your mind today? My agenda for today is an open slate, so what shall we talk about today?
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Fox
7 Sep
Good afternoon.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
And a good afternoon to you!
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Grapes
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7 Sep
What is on your mind? I fight frustration and "difficulties with tech issues- daily"
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
I love technology, but not when it doesn't work!
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Fox
7 Sep
USA, post Labor Day holiday signaling summer time ending, Pandemic raging.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
Indeed, it's a scary thing -- people not testing before gathering and not masking up. I'm sure we'll see another surge in three weeks, sorry to say.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
Last week I mentioned a trend that's grown a bit since the pandemic started, most likely because we've all been hunkering down with the family, and that's "Gray Divorce". Not only is this a life-disrupting event, it often leaves one of the parties in a tenuous financial situation. Is this a concern for you?
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Fox
7 Sep
Myself, un-espoused, thus, no.
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Grapes
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7 Sep
Have to jump through a lot of hoops daily- these days with every inch of progress.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
At least you're making progress!
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Lion
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7 Sep
Hi everyone, what's on my mind? Hahaha, A LOT. One major concern is waiting for my husband to actually commit to stop vaping and drinking. I'm trying to focus on myself more.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
Waiting for another person to stop their pleasurable activities is like trying to catch a bullet with your teeth. Self focus is good, especially when those around you can be self-destructive.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
Getting back to last week's topic on how to bring joy into your life, my favorite way these days is to pay a quick visit to my grandson, coming up on three years of age. To watch that mind work as he tries to figure out a puzzle, or hearing his unfettered laughter at my silly voices and faces is a true joy and blessing!
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Fox
7 Sep
Joy. Very important. You have a great blessing with grand. I continue to try smiles and keeping humour nearby. Laughter is helpful for me.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
The funniest thing with toddlers is that one day, they absolutely LOVE a particular food item -- can't get enough, beg for more, and eat all that's at hand. So you go to the store first thing the next day to replenish the supply only to hear, "No - I don't like that anymore!"
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Fox
7 Sep
You in-joyed your holiday time away?
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
It was a good week away, but for the physical pains from driving 8 hours a day for 2 days, then sleeping in a much smaller bed and causing a shoulder impingement! Getting older with parts wearing thin is no fun. We were visiting with my wife's sister, and that alone can be an emotional roller-coaster! But the wineries we visited in Oregon's Willamette Valley were outstanding and worth all the time and effort. (I found out that it is not pronounced Willa-mette, but Will-amm-it, as in "dammit". My wife bought me the t-shirt "It's Willamette, dammit!"
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Fox
7 Sep
Lovely! Understand the change of comfort in old age. Car seat not same as my Beautyrest mattress in storage. (Aarrgg!) I lived in The Dalles.
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Lion
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7 Sep
That's great! I haven't seen my little great grands much during the pandemic. Today I met a lady who had a four month old daughter. It took all that I had inside of me to ask if I could hold her. The lady gladly gave me the baby, thanked me and offered me an opportunity to see the baby again when she comes to town. The baby and I had an awesome rapore; it felt great!! I'll be okay for awhile now.
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
"Baby Fixes" are the best!! Until they drool, spit-up, or poop...
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
For those to whom it applies, L'Shana tova tikatevu, especially the Wisdo team in Israel who make this platform possible!
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Steven "Shags" Shagrin
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7 Sep
We've run out of time for today. I hope I addressed every comment -- it's hard to tell the way they show up on my device in different areas of the threaded discussion. If I've missed any, please write to me through Wisdo. If you would like to chat privately about what's up for you and how I might be of service, make a no cost or obligation appointment for a Get Acquainted session: https://calendly.com/dr_retirement/get-acquainted
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Lion
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8 Sep
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