Yes and you can’t pour from an empty cup or when your bucket is full of holes and all the sand is leaking out. I remember what that was like, raising my young kids, caring for an almost paralyzed first husband, guardian for nephew with substance abuse problem, directing my non-profit, dealing with government red tape and hysterical, needy clients. It was a recipe for disaster. My health suffered greatly and I did not recover for some years. It took a toll on my family too, though I tried my best. I am, thankfully, much older and wiser. I know when to pull back.