Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Hello, and welcome to happy healthy worthy wealthy Refirement!!!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
When you breathe in, visualize that the calming energy of the earth is flowing up through your feet up into your belly and then when you exhale it goes up through the top of your head and into the loving universe
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Then, on the next breath visualize that the loving energy of the universe is coming in through the top of your head, and when you exhale, going out your feet into the calming firm centred universe.
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Take a few of these breaths, and just enjoy the feeling of the love pouring in and the calmness
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Then, recall a moment in your life that brings you so much joy it was a moment of pure love.
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
For me, it was the moment my oldest granddaughter was born and came into this world
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Allow yourself to feel that love that Joy for a few moments
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Feel that love feeling your room
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Then imagine that love filling the house, then your city, then your country, then the world
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Then feel all that love come pouring back into you
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Receive that bathing of love
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
That, my beautiful friend, is self-love! It’s like you love in the world, and the world loving you back!❤️
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
LOL, that should have been loving the world! Although, having your own personal love in is a great way to practice self-love!♥️😍😘
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
So, to recap, self-love to me means self acceptance, self compassion, and self care.
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
I hope you do that little meditation, it is beautiful! I’d love to hear how you felt doing it!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
I mentioned a few ways to practice self-care Dash moving your body, eating healthy foods, meditating, dancing and singing!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Celebrating who you are at the end of the day
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Giving yourself a little pat on the back or a little hug, we’re looking in the mirror and saying I love you!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Mirror work is a great way to practice self-love. It was created by the late great Louise Hay
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
It could be really challenging to start with but keep it up, as after a while you will start feeling love for yourself.
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
What you do, is look at yourself in the mirror. Noticed your eyes your nose your mouth your smile your wrinkles your hair and appreciate them. Soften your gaze and look into your eyes
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
And say, I love you! Yes, you, and I love you! You are beautiful! You are powerful! And you are getting through this!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
I dare you to try this! It can change your life if you continue to do it. All of these practises well!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Will, not well!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Saying the words over Will create a new Neural pathway in your mind if you do it often enough
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Research now shows that it takes 65 to 365 days to create a new neural pathway, so don’t give up after a few days if you don’t feel any different. Keep it up for at least 65 days, why not go for the gold and keep it up for a year! And see how different you feel!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
We still have a few minutes left, and if you have a question or comment feel free to ask or say!
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
In the words of Lucille Ball, “you have to love yourself first to get anything done in this world!”
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
when we love ourselves, the world gets to be a lot lighter, brighter, happier, and healthier!❤️
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Like anything else, it is something that we can learn, and comes with practice.
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Sometimes, we just need to fake it till we believe it!😊
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Alrighty then, this concludes today’s session on self-love! I hope you found it beneficial, And took one thing from here that you were put into practice
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Norma ReidAuthor
5 Feb
Wishing you a day, and a year, and a life filled with love light and laughter!
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Come join me and let’s talk about forgiveness!!!
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Hi there! Welcome to happy, healthy, worthy, wealthy Refirement! I’m Norma Reid, I’ve been a certified executive coach since 2004, I’ve done a lot of career coaching as well as retirement coaching
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
I’d like to see Refirement rather than retirement, as I believe this chapter of our life is the most exciting chapter! It’s the time when we can be our authentic selves, and do what we’ve always wanted to do! Or make up what we want to do and go for it LOL
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
This month of February I have been talking about self love. Why? Because I truly believe that unless we love ourselves, we can’t fully appreciate this incredible life we have
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
I’m not sure if anybody’s out here listening to me, but if you are, I would love to hear your thoughts on self-love
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Last week, I talked about the three critical parts of self love – self acceptance, self compassion, and self care.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
I believe self forgiveness is closely linked to self acceptance.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
We need to forgive ourselves for what we did and didn’t do or be or have.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
And for peace of mind, we need to forgive others for what they did or didn’t do or be or have
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
I love this quote by Neale Donald Walsh, “ forgiveness is just another word for peace in the language of the soul.”
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
I think I will read to you a bit from my book, on forgiveness.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
“ The benefits of forgiveness are well documented, including better Health, increased income and weight loss. Forgive yourself and others, release the anger, shame and resentments, the ‘could haves, the ‘should haves’ and the guilt.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
They don’t serve you; they keep you stuck in that dark dense energy
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Forgiveness is a decision you make to ultimately take back your power
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
When you’re holding resentment not only do you play the victim role, but you give your power to that person.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you have to become friends with them again or invite them back into your life.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
It’s simply the willingness to let go of the negative emotions which you relive when you think of them in order to claim your own inner strength, resilience and light.
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
Any thoughts on that? Questions?
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Norma ReidAuthor
19 Feb
when you open yourself to your light, you open yourself up to greater love and authenticity. When you take back your power, there ain’t nothing that’s gonna stop you, Wondrous Woman!
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