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Mushroom
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1 Oct
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Rabbit
4 Oct
I loved a man for 3 years. We weren't actually ever together but I fell for him in a matter of a few months. We never got physically intimate but we conversed a lot and saw each other daily. Eventually he hinted at falling in love with me but I thought I messed up. When I tried to fix it I found out he was engaged. He denied everything to her and blamed everything on me. We still kinda poke at each other at least once a year to kinda remind the other that we are still there but we don't speak or see each other anymore. I'm finally healing but he still crosses my mind when I need a pick me up. He thought me what I could be treated like and I haven't found anyone who treats me that way. I feel like it's hopeless to think I'm going to find that again.
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Hibiscus
Helper
4 Oct
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Owl
Helper
5 Oct
It’s been 2 years of no contact and I still think about this girl every single day, every single hour of my life. I want to switch brains with someone, I can’t take it anymore. I would do anything to just stop thinking about her. I tried everything I don’t know what to do
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Sunflower
5 Oct
So this morning I was on a social media platform and the person posted about wanting to end it because they were depressed because their significant other wasn’t there for them so I messaged them and told them to focus on themselves and learn to love themselves and if anyone doesn’t appreciate you for who you are they don’t deserve you in the first place I told them try to focus on the things that make you happy.I was greeted with a negative attitude and instead of trying to understand that I was just trying to uplift their spirits that I was inconsiderate.I responded to them by telling them plain and simple,you chose to come onto a social media platform to express your feelings so that means you are therefore reaching out so someone can listen and understand what you are going through.I told them that you are never alone and there are plenty of people going through what you are so you need to embrace them instead of pushing them away.I stated that I also am going through difficult times and cry but it’s me trying to self heal
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Elephant
7 Oct
Newly separated. Seeking 2nd divorce. 3rd times a charm? Idk if I want to find out...
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Elephant
7 Oct
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Fox
9 Oct
Hi I never been in a relationship with anyone in my life but I feel that someone that I like and cared never notice me or smiles when she see me in a public place
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Sunflower
9 Oct
The sadness we face the trials and tribulations we endure is something so simple but yet again it is hard to obtain,the proper lines of communication.We need people to just sit there and listen,instead of instantly judging you,bad mouthing you,being argumentative and giving you the chance to explain yourself.Even if you made a mistake we are all human just let me express how I’m feeling at the moment that way you can understand my worries and frustration that way you can help me figure out what’s wrong and guide me and give me advice on how to correct my flaws.I got tired of being judged I got tired of people looking down at me for no reason and I finally realized it,these people did not give me a chance to correct my mistakes they didn’t give me the opportunity to talk,they refused to listen and most of all care.That’s why there are so many of us sad heartbroken and lonely because no one is there to care and listen to us 😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
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Umbrella
10 Oct
I thought I finally found someone I could see myself with but ended up falling apart 😞
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Trumpet
10 Oct
Im with a man Jaír for visa papers and is good life with home but not live anymore how I can get the energy to leave him ?
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Sunflower
10 Oct
Me I feel bad that I had to block a couple people I was chatting online with not that they were bad people is they weren’t making the effort to keep in touch w me,if you are interested in me then contact me message me let me know you are interested in me or you will get cut off with the quickness.And the main reason I blocked one of them is their one word responses like oh ok etc,that irks the living daylights out of me,if I text you a long message,sentence or paragraph give me the same type of energy back.The person told me you know you can message me as well I don’t have to be the only one and when I did all that they didn’t give me the same type of vibe back so they got dismissed
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Hedgehog
12 Oct
If you are accepting a one sided relationship then there is something within you that's broken and you need to focus on healing, not focusing on a man.
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Elephant
13 Oct
My heart is shattered and I have only found a few pieces that my wife dropped as she abandoned me to be alone in order to start her self love journey. I'm so confused and hurt due to everything that happened right before. She want me to heal and love myself so we can come together better but I'm like if I have to journey through this alone why would I be with you once everything is good again? I'm so... idk... disappointed?
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Umbrella
Helper
14 Oct
I need a friend right now, please reach out if you can.
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Sunflower
15 Oct
My heart was shattered even though I gave my all and was the best friend and lover to my ex,I was loyal faithful and loving,I was giving and most of all I was attentive and caring.Even after all that and having all this compassion and love,they still decided to cheat and leave me.What I don’t get is why so some men and women in general do this to people that do nothing but care and love them unconditionally?
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Hedgehog
16 Oct
I realized certain people, situations or recalling mistakes from my past triggers me to question my self worth. I started realizing that I talk down to myself and feel like a failure whenever I don't reach my personal goals. I really had to reframe my thoughts. For example, a situation that triggers me is when I end a relationship with someone I cared for. I acknowledged that I felt lonely, unloved and unhappy without them. I expressed what I thought at this time. I thought I wasn't good enough for him to choose me as his partner. I thought I was unloveable. I discovered a reason that supports my thoughts/beliefs. I am not good enough because he wants his ex more, not me. He talks about missing his ex more but doesn't miss me when I'm away. I discovered a reason that contradicts my thoughts/beliefs. A more accurate thought would be I am good enough because I don't let anyone use me. I value myself too much and don't stick around by settling to be someone's second option. I am loveable because I love myself more and won't settle for anyone that can't give me the love I want. I feel different now. I feel like he was not compatiable for me and the relationship with him was not what I want for myself. Therefore I don't want to waste my time and effort on something that does me more harm than good.
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Owl
18 Oct
I had a lot of heartbreaks in my life and I’m only 20. My two exes broke my heart when they loved gaming so much, they stopped loving me. my ex best friend broke my heart when she wanted to spend time with my (now ex) boyfriend over me. An old friend broke my heart when he chose weed over me and started ghosting me. that broke my heart a lot because he was the first boy who made me feel loved for a while. I will never forget him but im still angry at him for teaching me how to become obsessed with him. i hate him for it. i still think about him a lot and that hurts. he was a narcissistic and i knew he only wanted me to become obsessed with him. he never truly loved me. it hurts. he was my best friend. the other heartbreaks are my family when they told me im not a good person, and im worthless. or my current bf who tattooed his best friends birthday on his leg while she tattooed his birthday on her underboob. it still hurts but i l forgave him for it. i chose to be with him again. sometimes i wish, someone loved me enough to make me stay.
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Owl
18 Oct
oh and ofc my “dad” my dear father who has a narcissistic personality disorder only caring about himself and money. i hate he lies about loving me. i hate how i know he will never love me. HE WILL NEVER LOVE ME AND IT BREAKS MY HEART!
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Tiger
19 Oct
I'm thinking about divorcing my husband because he keeps choosing alcohol over family. I have five kids and I'm struggling because I have no support network. My husband has put himself in front of my kids and it's more important to drink until he passes out versus actually watching the kids (it's put them in harm's way before). I realize I'm co dependent, and I know I'm strong enough to do everything on my own I already basically do. I miss the way he was but he doesn't think he has a problem no matter how many people tell him. It's been years of working on this but I'm not even getting the minimum effort back. I've tried everything. And I still have a hard time leaving, making excuses on staying put even though my kids and I deserve better. Anyone gone through something like this? I need help.
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Owl
Helper
19 Oct
Hey Charlotte, I get it ! This is one oh those times you have to make that hard decision. Unless he surrender to his addiction nothing will change. You and your children are in my prayers. God will make a way. Rw
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Violin
19 Oct
I'm new here my exs sister got me to join, I just wanna be able to vent to some one and build a friendship..
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Tiger
Guide
21 Oct
Just wanted to say stay strong and if youre going through it, i hope you make it out. 🤍
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Mushroom
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21 Oct
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Sunflower
24 Oct
I’m tired and alone and grew frustrated in trying to give 💯 of myself and never getting the same type of energy and respect back.I want to be with someone that I can fully trust with my heart soul and everything.I want that person to understand me as well as I understand them.Have compassion and care as I do them and most of all listen to my needs and not stand there and want to argue with me over the pettiest stuff.And to me that’s not so hard to ask for because it’s something so simple and that’s what I call love.I’m tired of crying I’m tired of hurting I’m tired of not knowing what the world holds for me,I want the person that will tell me baby everything is going to be alright you got this
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Mango
Helper
25 Oct
I didn’t really have a childhood growing up I have always seen arguments or arguing. I wish I had a childhood that probably explains why I am so down a lot. :(
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Violin
25 Oct
I just want to come here to say hello 👋🏽 everyone!! To days another day let’s like it unordinary
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Mushroom
29 Oct
I have a question. When should I give my ex his goodbye letter? When I leave or while I'm still living here? Thanks
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Sunflower
5 Nov
I have no reliable transportation,although I have a roommate who drives he always acts like this is my car not yours so I don’t bother him at all he only takes me to go grocery shopping.That being said my sister whom I haven’t seen in decades moved to the states around 2015 and I have yet to see her even to stock up on water and get got 8 cases of water so it’s 400 bottles of water
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Sunflower
6 Nov
I’m a quiet reserved guy,I’m not the type to see a woman and immediately go up to her and introduce myself only because I see things from a different perspective unlike some people I see it this way,the woman could have a partner and I go up to them and the person might be around them.To me it’s a sign of respect,I can be cordial and say hello good morning etc that’s perfectly fine but I am not the one to say what’s up baby I just think it’s lame.I find it hard to date because of me being so laid back and quiet I just don’t like going to noisy places like a bar or club.I like places that you have the chance to talk to someone instead of having to try and talk to someone when there’s so much people around.Another thing and I’m not trying to sound prejudice but because of my skin color and the area I live in most women have a skin color preference and it’s not mine.Next because I’m a short guy I don’t even bother because most women have a height preference,NeXT because of my weight they have a weight preference so the odds are stacked against me.Me I could care less what any women look like as long as they have a great personality and character I don’t place judgement on anyone just by looking at their physical characteristics
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Hedgehog
6 Nov
"Understanding that you are a complete person whose self-esteem develops from what you do in your life and how you contribute to making a difference for the greater good and not from any singular relationship in your life, will help you gain perspective and navigate situations. - "Buxani-Murpuri"
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Lemon
9 Nov
Oh so I was with my boyfriend now Ex and things got physical and I took so much emotional abuse from him for so long and now I’m wondering how I move on from the situation also deal with feeling like I’m just starting over all over again. And even if I should try dating again in the future
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Guitar
9 Nov
I’m beyond heartbroken. Someone I had high regards for said such hurtful things to me . I’m still in complete shock and unable to process
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Mango
Helper
9 Nov
My boyfriend and I had an argument this evening over text and now we decided to take a break. I feel so hurt and sad that I hurt him once again and I feel like I can’t be trusted anymore or anything. He shouldn’t even be with me at this point :(
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Elephant
9 Nov
The wife wants us to try to rebuild our marriage. I want to so bad but i dont think it will be better
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Bear
9 Nov
Hello, I’ve just joined! Don’t be a stranger - please introduce yourself
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Lemon
10 Nov
It seems like a lot of us here need to heal including myself
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Elephant
Helper
11 Nov
I've been feeling very alone and anxious about my future. I'm scared that I'll never find love again.
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Guitar
11 Nov
When you know your worth, you stop settling for less ❤️
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Mango
Helper
13 Nov
Is it wrong for me to get a bit jealous or upset when my roommate guy friend/boyfriend comes over and my boyfriend hasn’t been over for a long time. :( I just wish my boyfriend could come over and stay.
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Sunflower
14 Nov
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Chipmunk
16 Nov
It's okay to be sad over someone who's not sad over you.
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Sunflower
16 Nov
What frustrates me with the world in general is we are so caught up on technology that we’ve neglected all the simpler things in life that matters,taking your time instead of always being in a rush and learning to relax more.We become sad because other people ignore us when we just need someone to talk to to site there and listen and have care and compassion for our needs.Instead of just Turing a blind eye,or turning you back on someone take that couple minutes from your busy schedule and ask if the person is ok and if they need anything from you as far as advice don’t be afraid to ask.When I worked in an assisted living facility the residents were so sad and crying because they felt alone and neglected.I would go deliver food to them sit there for a few minutes and stop by and say hi,that little gesture meant more to them than anything.I wish people would stop for a minute and stop judging the next person before we are ready to judge ourselves.Just because you may have more material wealth than the next person,they poses spiritual wealth and because of that they appreciate life more instead of letting life go by.There are a lot of things I wish I can see and do and I’m determined to live my life and do it.My dream eventually is to travel to Norway sit on the grass in the springtime and see how beautiful the Northern Lights are in person
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Chipmunk
19 Nov
I feel so stupid. I can't believe I fell for another guys bullshit. They think they can get in your pants by lying and love bombing you 🙄
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Tropical Fish
20 Nov
the worst feeling ever is falling in love, spending years with someone, only to wake up one morning and everything that you had tried to accomplished, it just begins to fade away. “I love you” starts to not matter anymore. you begin to sleep in another room. the distance grows consistently. love can be a fucked up thing, but it can also be a beautiful thing. you have got to want it. you have want to work, and you hope that it all works out. ..before you start all over and give your heart to someone else.
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Chipmunk
25 Nov
How do you gain control of your emotions?
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Lion
28 Nov
Hi! Nice to meet everyone here
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Sunflower
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I been bullied all my life ever since I was a kid until now as an older adult and it’s sad how people can treat someone bad even though they’ve done nothing wrong to them.I was at work and we were short,we have a schedule up to show us where everyone is at that particular day.One of my coworkers was scheduled to do a job and I was moved around because someone called off,so I went ahead and made sure that my co worker was covered so they don’t have to do extra work when they come in,they completely ignored the task they were doing and went to do another job.So I had to scramble to make sure that position was covered and when they came back down they started barking at me like it was my fault that I was switched to cover another position.Sorry but I had to go into the locker room and cry because I hate it when people treat me bad and I always do my best and never bother anyone.It’s been like this since I was a kid getting picked on getting jumped etc.I literally had to stop going to school because I couldn’t concentrate for fear of getting beat up or killed at school.Even to today I’m quiet and reserved I don’t like confrontation I hate it.Even while I was w my ex aged beat me and I can’t no more I just pray that there is paradise soon and I get to see my parents again I don’t need anyone but them by my side and sorry I don’t need to see these horrible people
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Ice Cream
Helper
Friday
How to fall in love again I love my ex so much but when she cheated on me it broke my heart how can I ever fall in love again
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Ice Cream
Helper
Friday
I just wish someone would love me for who I am and not what I have
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Guitar
Friday
how do you let go of someone that you cant let go of?
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