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MushroomAuthor
27 Jul
Is blocking someone you used to talk to (and like) immature? I was considering doing it, as things did not work out, but I don’t want to seem very petty and immature by doing so. I’d just be doing it to avoid seeing their page and posts. I wouldn’t be doing it to be nasty or childish; it’s more so to just avoid any further upset by seeing their posts. Sorry if it seems like a stupid question, and I know the answer is subjective really, but I just wanted some type of reassurance because I don’t want to seem nasty or like I’m being funny.
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Panda
27 Jul
It seems like it's creating some sort of psychological boundary for you that is going to be healthy so short answer yes! Do it and feel better.
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Hedgehog
27 Jul
Imo I wouldnt worry about whether others think its petty or immature. I just block it for myself because I know I will fill obligated to reach out if I'm too attached.
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Hedgehog
27 Jul
Will feel obligated*
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Full Moon
27 Jul
Absolutely not! Your mental health and well-being should be your biggest priority. As long as you plan on having no further relations with this person there’s no issue. It’s only immature when you send mixed messages like block them and then the next day try to win them back and keep repeating that cycle. But there is nothing wrong with clearing bad energy! :)
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OctopusHelper
27 Jul
Blocking all contact with a person isnt immature or petty at all. More often then not people do ot for tbeir mental health and and /or beczuze they need space. And that is perrrrfectly normal
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Evergreen Tree
30 Jul
Do what you gotta do. If cutting them off completely communication wise fixes your problems then you weren’t the problem
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