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Popcorn
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28 Jul
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Mango
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29 Jul
i came out as trans when i was 16 and my family didn’t accept so i just said i was a lesbian .. well i finally came out again as trans at 24 .. and just made my appointment to talk about getting on testosterone i was really excited about it , but when i told my family again they told me that if this is what i wanted to do they will no longer talk to me .. i just really want some friends to talk too that will support me no matter what so here i am .. if anyone would like to talk my inbox is open . 🤍
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Canoe
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2 Aug
(TW: Emotional/Mental Abuse delete if not allowed in this section but pertains to LGBTQIA+). I’ve been single since 2015-2016. My ex used to gaslight me & emotionally & mentally abused me. I have childhood trauma & PTSD but what he did just added to it. We dated all of just about 5months & that was enough to cause years worth of damage. He kept trying to say his life & problems were worse than mine but he wasn’t depressed or anxious like I was. He was trans (nothing wrong with that) & used it as his parents didn’t accept him to not necessarily lash out at me but take it out on me like my problems weren’t good enough to cause anxiety/depression/PTSD etc. It was one of the more serious relationships I ever had & he just wrecked it. Like I was nothing. I have body positivity issues, etc & now just get too attached to people sometimes who might take a slight interest in dating me & then they always end up being out of state or something & always end up over sharing my issues or not being as honest. It’s a double edged sword. I’m attracted more to personality now than I am gender, as I’ve grown so has my perception of that. If I don’t vibe off someone’s personality then I don’t form a connection with them & feel I can’t trust them because of said past issues. Not to mention not many LGBTQ+ people in my area hence why I always find people in surrounding areas etc. I just want a normal dating life, sex life etc.
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Turtle
4 Aug
I’m in an odd situation. I came out to my crush first. Then she rejected my feelings because she was straight. I got over her. Then later she came out to me. I feel so weird about this. Idk if I’m sad or upset about it. I’m glad she’s discovering herself. But it’s just weird. Can anyone help?
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Evergreen Tree
5 Aug
Hi everyone. I just joined in hopes of finding some people who have or are dealing with a dog piling cyber bullying of your whole home …it is constant threats and I am guessing it’s because I’m gay
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Evergreen Tree
5 Aug
The hackers are using something called GitHub and constantly are telling me they know everything about me and going to ruin my life. They utilize voice cloning and I’m not doing well with handling it for this long so if anyone can refer me or message me to someone that could help I have some information I’m just alone in this.
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Evergreen Tree
5 Aug
I don’t know much about technology but the person I had look into it said it was a mimic developer tool program how to drive a person mad with 64 contributors I have no clue what that means but I can’t take much more of this
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Evergreen Tree
5 Aug
All my legal notices are not what apples pdf has I am truly scared
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Evergreen Tree
5 Aug
It says media pending approval but I have all the proof
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frisbee
7 Aug
I’ve leanrnt my lesson the hard way. Always do an audio recording of a police officer, even if you are the one who called them to the scene. At the end of the month, my landlord decided that I shouldn’t take any pictures before leaving and asked me to leave. Rent paid and my lease was still active. I called the police to get my things, as I hadn’t removed all my belongings and he refused to allow me to. Luckily I was recording our (me and the landlord) conversation just before he asked me to leave, which I will be using as evidence of an illegal eviction. I called the police and after 15 minutes an officer (a white police officer, looked very young and I now find out he has only been an officer for 2 years) arrived. He asked me what happened, I explained and he asked nothing else. He went into the house and was there for about 10 minutes, during which another officer arrived. The second officer asked me the same thing and showed more concern. He was a lot of more mature but also white. For some reason, I forgot to audio record all our conversations and reason being, I trusted them. The second officer also went into the house and came back, saying I could only take pictures of any damages. I asked why and they couldn’t explain. They also didn’t check my lease to see that I still had access to the property. They allowed me to take my things but I couldn’t take any pictures to protect my rights if the landlord accused me of any damages that I didn’t do. The police officer however said the landlord had advised them that there were no other damages and he said he would put it in his notes. He also said I could request the notes even though I would be out of state. While we were in the house he also took both our ID’s. After we all left and I was driving away, I later noticed that the second officer followed me off the property. Mind you, I could have stayed until 12 am since that’s what the state law stipulates as I have paid all my rent. I suspected that they saw me as the threat, not the white landlord who just denied me access to my property. Nevertheless, days later I called to request the notes and I was constantly being transferred to the officer’s line, constantly leaving voicemails for three days. At one point the phone operator told me that he was working with his supervisor to figure out how to send the notes out of state. I called back multiple times and no response, I got frustrated and I explained in details to the person who had answered the phone what had happened and she transferred me to his supervisor’s line. Again I left a voicemail but still had to call later in the day, when the officer finally answered and said he had tried to call me yet I saw no voicemails, no messages on my well working phone. I said it was ok and he said he was also trying to figure out my email because the one I left wasn’t clear. He took my email and said he would send the notes. I had to coffirm with him that he put what he was supposed to put in the notes… he was very hesitant. When I read the notes, it only had the landlord’s side of the story, which also misrepresented what had happened that day. The landlord said it was my last day and I was leaving. Yet the audio recording clearly showed me asking the landlord to regain access to my room, which he denied me. It also specified what damages were in the house, which I will contest in court. It frustrates me that the police can just eagerly lie and choose one person’s testimony over another because he wants to. I know police records are inadmissible in some civil cases, and with the evidence that I have, I now realize that I won’t need it, but probably just to prove that I called the police.
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Guitar
18 Aug
I have to learn to accept that maybe I’m meant to be alone for the rest of my life that I’m not meant to have someone love me or me love her
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Hamster
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21 Aug
Hi guys! Many of us are having problems replying to individual messages requesting help! Wisdo are working on this! A workaround that a few of us have found is to put a message on that chat asking the person to DM us as that part of the system seems to be fairly stable at present! Hope this helps!
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Bear
28 Aug
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Bear
29 Aug
Who free
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Maple Leaf
Helper
5 Sep
Looking for fellow gay friends!
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Mango
7 Sep
It would be nice if I had some LGBTQ friends
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Lion
Guide
8 Sep
I feel weird at 28 having identity issues and it only took moving out to experience this
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Octopus
10 Sep
Anyone available to talk 😔
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Dolphin
11 Sep
Does anyone else have a really complicated relationship with their mother?
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Duck
12 Sep
Hey I have a question for my trans friends in the us.. my best friend is struggling (mtf) and I want to help her .. pm me please and thank you ❤️
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Hamster
Guide
13 Sep
Hey gang If you all have some time this am.. Come join me while I co-host the trivia zoom event. My first time and sure could use some moral support. It begins at 12 noon eastern time and 11 am central time. on zoom here is the link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9837306043
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Sunflower
14 Sep
Today someone told me to read the Bible because I'm a lesbian. I'm having a tougher time than usual blowing that off since my mood isn't great today.
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Owl
Helper
24 Sep
I have tendencies towards being attracted to women. I am a woman who is usually attracted to men. I'm saying I have tendencies towards being bisexual. I've been dating this one guy. However, Idk if I should date other women or hook up w/ a girl (if they're into that) to get it out of my system. The only time I'm attracted to other women is when I watch videos of women having sex or simply making out. That turns me on. Idk what to do. I feel self-conscious in public when I see girls kissing because I'm attracted to that & Idk how to express that w/o revealing my true emotions
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Tiger
Guide
28 Sep
it’s a beautiful day to write down all the things that you love about yourself. be your own biggest cheerleader. celebrate yourself. pour into yourself so that you can pour into others. it starts with you.
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frisbee
29 Sep
Struggling a bit after seeing that Netflix documentary
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Grapes
30 Sep
Hi everyone! I’ve just joined this community. Nice to meet everyone!
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Rabbit
5 Oct
Hello!
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Rabbit
5 Oct
I hope this is an okay thing to ask, I'm really just looking for perspective on some thoughts I'm having around my gender identity. The idea of identifying as nonbinary feels intriguing to me, but for me I think it might be largely due to wanting to escape the societal expectations of men? Of course i imagine it would be just a different set of expectations/assumptions regardless of identity, but I guess I just have a desire to escape them.. I just sense I'm different from other men somehow, or i just want to be different so I make myself believe that. Idk dude
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Giraffe
8 Oct
Hello everyone! I'm new around here. Don't be shy to say hi 🙂
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Sunflower
8 Oct
I had some issues in a lesbian group I used to attend. I wish it was easier to find a sense of community.
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Guitar
Helper
9 Oct
Hello. I have just recently started to think about experimenting with women and I have never before. I flirt with this one girl that’s fully gay has girlfriends and stuff and I’m really intimidated since idk what I’m doing lol. Any advice for someone just trying out the water and maybe not being fully into it?
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Guitar
Helper
9 Oct
Please message me I really need some advice
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Turtle
14 Oct
What are your thoughts about online dating?
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Owl
18 Oct
hi! im excited to be here and to get to know you all !!! <3 tbh, i always had struggles. My sexuality was one of those struggles, im glad i know who i am. 💖💜💙 i also struggle with my gender identity. have struggled and still struggle. i dont know who i am and that scares me. i thought about binary and non-binary. never knew what i am, made me sad. i identity as cis-woman because thats “easy” for the people who dont know much about gender identities. but thats not me. i just wish i could be unlabeled and people would understand. but they wont and it bothers me sm. i wish i could tell myself, im valid for being a bi human being. WHY CANT I JUST BE HUMAN? … hope at least one relates to me. nice to meet u all ! glad to be here and write down my thoughts. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️
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Honeybee
29 Oct
I live in a society where every decision of what I should do is taken by everyone in part of my life besides me. I have longed for to be understood for what I want for myself. People have expectations from me ,they had since my childhood and till now I have done everything possible to meet their expectations. They pretend to value my emotions while forcibly fitting their own agenda in my mind ,continuously telling me what to do.. The madness is that i feel guilty of m having any my own emotions that they are there , what can I do of those emotions ,about what I feel, they just stay there invalidated unjustified. I have lived a double life since long pretending that I am okay..and doing that in a way I kinda killed my happiness with my own hands.. It now feels like am just here trying to carve out just a moment of happiness from my world of Chaos. I have done things to escape from my monterous mind , things which am not really proud of and which have now been just an addendum to my list of curses I lived. I don't wana continue this anymore.
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Hamster
Guide
31 Oct
Happy Halloween 🎃🎃🎃 be safe tonight if you go out.
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Hamster
Guide
1 Nov
Please join me on: Friday, 12 PM ET: Trivia Time with Miss Lilly! Love learning new facts? Join us for a fun-filled trivia competition! Session link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9837306043
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Ice Cream
Helper
2 Nov
So I am bisexual but for some reason nobody ever wants to go out with me I been single for years and it's starting to hurt please will someone please tell me why
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Maple Leaf
4 Nov
My entire life I thought I was gay, but for the past 10 years or so I’ve been struggling with my sexuality. I’m already out as gay, but I think I might actually be bisexual, not fully gay since I still like men, but I’m starting to come to terms with the possibility that I might be attracted to women too. I think I might be sexually fluid, but I feel more comfortable calling myself bisexual. I’ve never been intimate with the opposite sex, but I want to be. Also, I’m scared to talk to women.😰 Men are much so easier to date and I feel more confident talking to them. I wish I had the same confidence with the opposite sex 😔
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Hamster
Guide
5 Nov
Hi everyone. I am just checking in to see how you are all doing this chilly saturday. In my world its going ok... The major storm yesterday missed us. but of course it hit others. I took advantage of the Wisdo Zoom meeting on meditation this morning. I am not one to usually meditate but I learned some valuable things to quiet my mind and slow down for a few minutes anyway. But I hope you are all doing ok and even great. I know each of you are brilliant wonderful caring people. I thank you for sharing your life here with us
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Hamster
5 Nov
When you’re severely disconnected from your significant other, when do you ask yourself when it’s time to call it
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Hamster
Guide
7 Nov
I borrowed this from Shelley mentor for Joyful Living. It finally put into words what Mindfulness is. Thought I would share. Thanks Shelley. Shelley D 8:48 PM By being mindful you can live in the present. No regretting the past or being afraid of the future. We know the past can’t be changed and the future is not here. The present is where we are and mindfulness can help us to find joy in the now. Join us at Joyful Living as we discuss what mindfulness is and how it can help with worry, stress and anxiety Monday (11/ 7) 9 am central time. Heres to finding joy in out monday.. and the rest of the week You deserve it.
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Ice Cream
Helper
7 Nov
Hello anyone would like to talk to me let me know yea
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Turtle
12 Nov
Hi just to say hello to everyone
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Hamster
Guide
12 Nov
DC dreamer hi and happy caturday . It's nice to meet you.
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Hamster
Guide
12 Nov
Oatmeal stealing Reginald. Naughty boy
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Hamster
Guide
22 Nov
TRIGGER WARNING I am writing this post because there may be members out there wanting to express their hurt and anger over the tragedy in Colorado Springs a man gunned down on Saturday night by an insane man. 5 Colorado party goers lost their lives and 18 were injured in what was considered a safe place for all people, gay and straight to go to. The gunman was stopped and disarmed by 2 club guests, an army veteran and a club performer. There are news articles with all the details online. The articles give a background look at the shooter as well. So my dear Wisdo family, for those of you that want to speak or write about this please know that the Staff and Guides are here to listen and talk if you want. We are here for you.. Our thoughts are with the Colorado community as they grieve their losses. If you reply please use the Trigger Warning sign for those that may be more than they want to read. As I always do I am sending hugs for those that want and need them and of course Nana is here for you. Hugs Lilly
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Hamster
Guide
24 Nov
Hi group who is getting the roast beast ready to cook
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Hamster
Guide
24 Nov
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Join me in Managing Holiday Stress community We will be together in our Wisdo home.
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Owl
Helper
25 Nov
Just wanted to send some love to you all. Hope everyone’s having an amazing night. Love you guys ❤️ feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to
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Guitar
Friday
hey 🫶🏼
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