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Bear
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26 Mar
Urgents
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Bear
Helper
26 Mar
I wanna grow dhudheh (boob) but needing support
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Lion
Helper
26 Mar
Goodnight everyone. Before you lay your head down tonight just know how amazing and worth it you are to this world 💕💕
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Maple Leaf
26 Mar
Any non-binary people willing to answer a question for me?
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Elephant
28 Mar
I feel so dysphoric when cis straight men hit on me because it means they see me as a woman and I'm not a woman 😭💔
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Hamster
Helper
29 Mar
Are you looking for a good night sleep ? Join us in the Improving Sleep Community for Dr Gills Super Sleeper Challenge. There is a No cost off line course that is full of great ideas and helpful hints For more information and the link to register come over to the Improving Sleep community. ' See you there Miss Lilly.
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Ice Cream
Helper
29 Mar
looking for someone to talk about some ??? so dm yea thanks
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Tropical Fish
30 Mar
Hi everybody. Great to meet you all 🙌
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Hamster
Helper
31 Mar
Hi Noah. Welcome to the Wisdo family. You are going make friends and get support for the things that are bringing you down. Sending hugs Lilly
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Whale
31 Mar
Can anyone message me please
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Ice Cream
Helper
1 Apr
hey everyone been looking for some advice from this group chat for awhile now and not being able to get anyone to want to responded so if it matters to anyone please let me know thanks
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Duck
1 Apr
Happy International Transgender Day of Visibility ♥️
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Elephant
2 Apr
I'm noticing that this community isn't very active. I wonder if anyone knows any other places online to find an LGBTQ+ support group?
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Pineapple
2 Apr
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳
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Umbrella
5 Apr
Hello everyone! I’m excited to be here and to get to know you all💜
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Giraffe
6 Apr
Sometimes it’s hard for me not to think of my transness as some kind of tragic thing. So many people live happy lives living with bodies that match their soul inside, but I was born with a male body and a female soul almost like some kind of cosmic joke on me. It’s really painful, I cry for the 18 years spent living as a boy. Now I am almost 22 and have been living as me for several years. Still, the pain of that past still haunts me.
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Maple Leaf
Helper
6 Apr
Hi everyone! My name is Luke, and I’m a gay writer/arts critic/artist from Dallas, TX. Anyway, I’m in a tricky situation rn! So I always knew deep down by 2nd grade that I’m into guys and only guys, but I tried to convince myself otherwise for ages to pass as straight and be normal and prove all the bullies wrong. I was afraid & ashamed of being homosexual ughhhhh. But in late 2017, I fell in love for the first time, but then I had to move away from him before I could do anything about it. I was isolated for a few years after that to deal with serious mental and physical health issues, but in 2020 I got my first boyfriend. Tbh, I wasn’t ready for it. I wasn’t stable (still am not at times, but it’s a whole lot better and def enough for a healthy relationship now), and tbh I wanted to casually date & hook up with my fair share of men bc I wanted to make up for so much lost time & have fun in college & experience what some of my other gay friends talked about so fondly. Little did I know that I’d just started dating my soulmate & love of my life. He was literally EVERYTHING I’d wanted and infinitely more: my genuine soulmate. I was also so so so truly attracted to everything about him too, and I’d never been satisfied like this with my life. But then he came out as a trans woman about 6 months in-ish. I couldn’t support trans rights more and was so so proud of him and ready to be loving & supportive & all, and I’d been longing for more trans people in my life. The only problem was that I’m strictly into men (and ONLY men). It was fine for the next 6 months bc he still looked like a boy—just got even more feminine—and that was fine bc I’ve always been super into feminine guys. Ofc I ALWAYS honored her choice of pronouns, her new name, and everything else, but subconsciously just still thought of her deep down as a feminine gay to make it work with my sexuality—and when physically interacting with her (kissing, sex, etc.) I’d think of what she looked like when she was my boyfriend. But now that time continues to pass, it gets harder & harder, and idk what to do. In theory I’d break up with her bc we’re not sexually compatible, which is what has been recommended to me on this app so far and by friends and so on. But I still am truly in love with this person, I don’t know if I could feel this way about anyone else, and I feel like I want to spend my whole life with her. And if that means less satisfying sexual interactions, I’m okay with it bc our relationship is priceless and the support and love and care and understanding she gives me (as well as I give to her) is unlike anything else I ever have or ever will experience, at least I believe right now. But as the surgeries she plans to get are on the horizon, it just makes me a bit scared, and idk what exactly to do. All I know is to think about it hard, talk to others, and be sure before I commit to a decision or do anything that could hurt her or make her feel invalidated. I still identify as gay when people ask but am willing to say that I’m bi or pan (even if she’s the only non-male I’m into and maybe bc I knew & saw her before her transition so much) if it would make her and our relationship more comfortable. Compromises are part of relationships, and I can’t imagine my life without her. Just want to get married to her but I also don’t want to grow sexually frustrated and subtly take it out on her. I also feel like I can’t fully explore myself around her as someone who grew up in denial of my sexuality and who thus tried to stick to heteronormative things even though I wanted to wear makeup and do drag and go shopping with girlies and all bc she (being strictly into men too) likes my more masculine side, which I think isn’t truly a real depiction of myself though I do have some aspects that aren’t necessarily masculine but are also not “feminine” in that I play sports/video games and all. Still a makeup queen and strong feminine presence at others times too! Any tips? I’ve shared some of this here but I wanted to go in depth just to say it once & for all. Thank u so much y’all! Stay strong, stay queer, stay proud!!! 🏳️‍🌈✨💕
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Honeybee
Helper
7 Apr
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Elephant
9 Apr
I'm finally making friends with other queer people in real life and it makes me so happy !! I esp get happy to meet other nonbinary people because I don't think I've ever known someobe other than myself irl that is enby !! Im so excited to get my social life back !!! :D
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Full Moon
12 Apr
Hey
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Fox
12 Apr
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳
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Bear
Helper
14 Apr
Who’s everyone’s favorite queer artists/songs? ✌🏼🎶 🏳️‍🌈
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Hibiscus
16 Apr
Hey guys - I’m new here & look forward to getting to know you all🥳. I’m having a really hard time understanding all my disorders and it’s affecting me and my relationship. :( I feel so alone I want to end it all just not coping. My family doesn’t want to know me at all and disowned me from when I first came out and the person I’m with now tells me that I don’t react well because of the voices in my head mean my bpd , ocpd and complex ptsd . I told her some of the bad things that have happened and she keeps telling me I need help so I guess I’m reaching out to support groups 🥹🥹
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Mango
Helper
17 Apr
hope everyone is having a beautiful day // night 🤍
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Dolphin
19 Apr
New here 👋 I'm gay and depressed, wbu?
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Whale
Helper
20 Apr
Hetroromantic Asexual here!
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Whale
Helper
20 Apr
I was born on elevators and my siblings on escalator. You can say… We were raised differently.
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Sunflower
22 Apr
Hey folks! How are y'all doing? I, personally, am in a dilemma. There are these YouTubers whose videos I enjoy. However, they've never spoken in support of the LGBTQIA+ community. As far as I'm aware, they've never made outright hateful comments about the community either. However, I couldn't stop thinking about it so I checked on the internet to see where they stood. Now according to some second party, they're not supportive of LGBTQIA+ rights. This may or may not be true, but I'll never know that unless they say something. If it's true, I don't feel right about continuing to watch them. And if it's not, I don't really like the fact that they are silent about it. But I do enjoy their content.
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Drum
26 Apr
Been gone for 3 years from this app. Ready to talk and help people who are struggling with anything I am a very opened person have a great day everyone 🫶🏻😇
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Elephant
26 Apr
Happy Lesbian Week of Visibility and Happy International Lesbian Day !!!
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Drum
26 Apr
Good morning everyone! I hope everybody’s day is going good! I’m here to talk if anyone needs someone to vent with or just a new friend 💕🫶🏻😜
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Canoe
27 Apr
Is it too much to ask for a kind, generous, and caring girl to go on date with? Where I live the dating pool is small.
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Bear
Helper
28 Apr
No matter what path you take to realize you’re sexuality, you are valid and nobody can tell you otherwise. Happy Lesbian Visibility week babes! 💗
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Duck
Helper
29 Apr
Essentially I'm just sat in my bed after a hell week and feeling numb all day. Now I'm watching Heartstopper and I feel so overwhelmed and sad and emotional I just need a hug and cry.
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Bear
Helper
29 Apr
I want dhudheh on my body
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Bear
Helper
1 May
Has anyone finished the series heart stopper on Netflix? It’s SO good
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Sunflower
Helper
3 May
Hi everybody. Great to meet you all 🙌
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Duck
Helper
5 May
At this point I think my life is a freaking joke fr. I came out to my mum months ago and she doesn't believe I'm gay. Not only she keeps teasing me about guys and making mean jokes about me being the only person who's single in my family but also insists about pairing me up with some random guys. Which part of I LIKE GIRLS she didn't got I don't really know and second of all ffs I'm single because I didn't find a gf yet not because I wanna be single or because I can't approach or seduce a guy. This is unbelievable my life is unbelievable I'm just here laughing about it and about my mum bulling me because I don't really know what to do with it aside thinking about it as a mean joke from the universe. And I'm sorry if me being lesbian it's such a disappointment for her I'm so tired of people thinking my worth is only worth it because I have someone by my side. I'm someone. And yes being single sucks ass but I'd rather being it than being in a relationship with a boy. I'm so tired of hating myself for everything and not being proud in who I am, and I'm sorry if she can't accept my sexuality I can't do it either but I'm trying. This is still unbelievable tho.
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Hamster
Helper
6 May
You know what group. Its hug time. Take a hug and pass them on. Hugs from me Lilly
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Sunflower
6 May
@miss-lilly is absolutely right! It's hugs time. Hugs from me,JJ!
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Hamster
Helper
8 May
Did anyone watch the Kentucky Derby??? What a great race. Blew everyone away
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Hamster
Helper
8 May
Happy Mother's Day for all those that have that title. Men women taking on the important work of raising the kids 2&4 leggers.
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Bear
Helper
8 May
Any advice on body gynecomastia
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Sled
Wednesday
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Bear
Helper
Thursday
Helo who free
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Hamster
Helper
Friday
Hi everyone just a reminder that tomorrow Friday is our Trivia fun Evening. Starting at 4PM eastern and 3PM central time. Ayla will lead us into the funniest trivia of a WISDO kind. Every one is welcome just click on the link below and join us. https://us02web.zoom.us/j/9837306043
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Hamster
Supervisor
Friday
Just dropping in to spread some love ❤️❤️❤️ Sending virtual hugs to anyone who may need it today 🙂
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Honeybee
Helper
Saturday
💗Self-Care Quotes💗 “Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness.” –Deborah Day “The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” – C. JoyBell “Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves.” – Nathaniel Branden “Self-care is how you take your power back.” – Lalah Delia
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Tropical Fish
Sunday
I just want to hello to everyone and I hope your weekend is going well:) mine is great. I am finally coming to terms that I am bisexual but I also like feminine masculine representation in both sexes so maybe it’s interchangeable I’m still figuring out an label but I don’t like labels lol all I know is I’ve been attracted to females since elementary and I’m now I’m my 30’s and being true to myself idk if I’m ready to come out yet especially since I come from a strict background and my parents are religious
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Mango
Helper
9:45 PM
it’s hard caring about someone and yet you’ve done them bad .. i hate myself for hurting her . no everyone i didn’t cheat . i just wasn’t in a good headspace and that made me hurt her .. i want to fight for her , but would that be the right thing to do ? i still very much love her ..
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Giraffe
Helper
1:03 AM
do y’all get annoyed of your SO are always well not always but when ever it’s quality time they on their phone ?
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