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Whale
17 Sep
if she always says she wants to cuddle me, hug me, does it mean she likes me? or is it normal to say it to a person even if u dont like em??
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Bear
Helper
18 Sep
I’m here tonight if anyone needs me my messages are open 💗
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Chipmunk
19 Sep
I just came out as non-binary
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Violin
Helper
20 Sep
TW "You're a big, strong 💪 man, stop thinking you're a girl and be STRONG, you're not a freak so don't choose to be one!" what I am going to have to put up with over the next few months now that I am no longer living at uni 🤪
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Bear
Helper
20 Sep
If anyone needs help or someone to talk to my messages are open 💗
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Lemon
21 Sep
Just know everyone here I love you all and I’m so proud of you for taking the courage to help others and find help yourself. Keep your head up and always know if there’s anything you need I’m always here for you!
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Trumpet
21 Sep
Is there anybody on here that is just looking for friends? I can listen and help with anything if needed.
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Elephant
21 Sep
So me and my boyfriend have been together for several years now. And we were laying in bed the other night. And I spoke up and asked him what were like is fanatics in or out of the bedroom. He finally spoke up and said something about a threesome. And completely caught me off guard. You got to understand that he’s never said anything like this to me before. Guess what I’m trying to say is I’m not totally against it but don’t know what I should do from here.
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Tennis
23 Sep
Hi guys! So the girl that am talking to she has a problem with accepting her sexuality because of her surroundings…..she said she is scared of falling in love with me cuz she is scared to be broken and that’s her first time to love someone…she haven’t seen anyone of her family had a healthy relationship or even her friends….so she is so scared……any advice!!!!(I really wanna help her to be comfortable with her sexuality
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Mango
Helper
23 Sep
Happy bisexuality visibility day!!
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Guitar
23 Sep
Any tips on coming out as none binary? I am now sure but it's all so new
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Whale
24 Sep
we used to talk every single day until she suddenly changed… we didn’t date, no one confess, but my feelings for her are still the same to this day..
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Duck
25 Sep
Currently Struggling with knowing what my sexuality is :/
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Whale
25 Sep
She used to talk to me everyday, being so excited about sharing her day to me, the goodmornings and goodnights, now not even checking my messages to her for a whole day or 2-3days.. even tho she’s online in another app everyday sending snaps to other people.. it’s always me who gets left behind by people i care about genuinely.. i notice, i always stay, but people always leave first.. what am i lacking? what i need to change about myself so people will choose to stay with me? i always try my best to respond to them as soon as possible, because i dont want them to feel ignored, because i know how painful and sad it is to be ignored.. but they always do this to me.. I always feel unappreciated and unwanted, it sucks that people always approach me first, showed that they’re interested but after i showed that im interested as well, they’ll just disappear.. i dont know what’s wrong with me, why i am not enough, why i will never be enough to people i care about? their feelings change so fast, but mine doesn’t.. and it sucks always being left behind and stuck moving on from them.. Sometimes i just think, maybe i should just be like them, maybe i should start ignoring people as well like how they treat me, maybe i should just do that, but i really cant… it’s so hard for me to ignore people.. because i dont want them to feel that they’re unwanted that they’re unappreciated.. because i know how painful it is.. i know that people deserve better treatment than that..
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Guitar
26 Sep
I have a hard time talking to people which sucks cos it makes it harder to find someone also doesn’t help that I don’t really want to be alive either so life sucks
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Owl
Helper
26 Sep
How do I tell this guy I've been on 5 dates with about my indecision of whether I am bisexual or not? I mean I've been going back & forth with being bisexual & not for the past 4yrs. Is that too early?
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Grapes
28 Sep
I’m not really sure that I’m bisexual? I have questions.
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Lion
28 Sep
I don’t know If I am straight or bi? I feel attracted to men and also to girls sometimes. Is it just the feeling or I’m really bi? What should I do?
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Bear
29 Sep
Hi lovely souls ☺️ It’s nice to meet you all.. I’ve been on wisdo for a while but I’m new to this community on here. If any of you want to talk feel free to reach out to me. But also read my profile and be considerate of me and what I expect in my connections. I came out last year and I’m so happy that I did. Can’t wait to get to know you all
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Lion
Guide
29 Sep
Hey everyone 😊 if anyone needs to talk I’m here
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Canoe
29 Sep
Hey everyone. I’ve been trying to figure out my pronouns and I’ve been struggling. I am looking at some binders, where is the best place to find a good binder. I do have a bigger chest, I want to flatten it some. Feel more comfortable in my clothes
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Bear
30 Sep
So, I reconnected with a match on Facebook dating and I’m experiencing gay joy. Something may or may not come of it but I just wanted to share this. She’s .. wow☺️🌻🌻🥺
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Trumpet
30 Sep
I’m in love with this girl that lives in montreal.. I live in Ottawa. no one compares even though I recognize other peoples beauty and see their potential, simply nothing compares to our connection. I don’t know if I’ll ever find someone like her and it makes me sad and frustrated:/
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Octopus
2 Oct
I’m ready to give up… I’m done I can’t do this anymore
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Violin
2 Oct
I need to talk to someone please
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Hamster
2 Oct
Anyone awake, who can't sleep?
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Violin
Helper
2 Oct
My parents don't believe I have gender dysphoria. They refuse to believe it, and I'm guessing it's because it really hurts them alongside their religious beliefs. What can you do when you know your parents really love you but don't know how to help you? Particularly when you are torn between how you feel and how they feel? Sometimes I don't even think I am trans, BUT the aching emotional pain and disgust at my own body comes back in waves and is intolerable. It's awful and it is hard to describe unless you've been through it yourself. I feel like I am betraying a family who loves and cares about me from doing this, from wanting to leave and go ahead with seeing the Gender Identity Clinic. But at the same time, I can't keep feeling suicidal or wanting to self harm because of my sexual presentation and the limitations (socially and emotionally) my gender imposes on me from society. These feelings do NOT go away. The hardest part is that I wonder if I really am quite messed up, as I've never identified with the hyper feminine (wearing pretty dresses etc.) yet still desire the secondary female characteristics so badly. I am in a mess. I don't want to lose my physical strength or standing as a 'man' in society full time, but I also cannot bear feeling dead inside any longer.
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Trumpet
2 Oct
Looking for a friend to chat too!! Feeling lost and would love some guidance.
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Tennis
3 Oct
Has anyone got any advice on how to come out to non accepting family? I'm non binary, there are 3 people in my life who know I'm non binary, two of my friends and my partner. But every time my family misgender me it makes me hate myself and the body I was born in even more. But they "don't believe" that being non binary is a thing. I was speaking to my mum about my friend who is nb, and she outright told me that they were ridiculous & attention seeking. What do I do?? Any advice is welcomed
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Hedgehog
4 Oct
Need help with my relationship. My partner is non binary and they’re worried i see them as a girl but they kno that im straight and im a man like im just confortable in my body as that. I feel like my attraction to the one anatomy is affecting it because rlly i dont see them as a girl a guy i just see them as themselves as an individual but i cant help that i like the female anatomy its what my sexual attraction is. its just who i am and ive questioned my sexuality before and ive even had my doubts about wether or not im the right gender but ive come a long way to realise that i am who i am and as much as i love them and have done everything i can to make them feel comfortable i feel that me being a straight male is just always gonna be something that plays on their mind. Im okay with being in a queer relationship and ive always said if it comes down to me liking a different gender then it wouldnt bother me id embrace it cos we’re all born different and it shouldnt matter who u love and i support anyone whos going through it but i feel as if i lose them because of it :( any help would be appreciated i can see myself spending the rest of my life with this person but im rlly worried that it will always affet them
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Umbrella
6 Oct
Tried coming out to my mom at 14, reaction was horrible and in response of that I said I was joking and that it was a prank. Now I’m 20 still haven’t come out to her, scared to because although she says she’s not homophobic, I know she is a little just by some of the things she say. But I don’t know what to do because I don’t wanna look ahead five years and I’m still hiding who i am.
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Mango
6 Oct
Does anyone know video editing
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frisbee
Helper
8 Oct
I think I’m bi but don’t know how to tell my fiancé has anyone else been through this ?!
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frisbee
Helper
8 Oct
I finally told my fiancé and he was so accepting of it and my situation I also told my family I cAn finally be me🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
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Trumpet
8 Oct
Okay so I’ve been dating this girl for just about 2 weeks now and I’ve been starting to meet a lot of her friends/ going out with them.. one night we were all over at someone’s house (her friends) we were all drinking (not super drunk or anything though) just talking and one of her straight girl friends was looking at me a lot and then at one point she was like showing her leggings for some random reason kinda pushing out her ass and looked at me to I guess see where I was looking?¿ or honestly idk why but it all intuitively felt like she was looking for my reaction. After that she has made long eye contact with me to the point where I have had to look away first and where I’ve felt a little turned on.. I know it sounds like this could all be meaningless but I honestly felt like there was something fishy behind what she was doing.. I suppose she was either testing me / my loyalty to her friend or she thinks that I’m attractive and is playing some sort of game. Any opinions?? I feel weird about seeing her again
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frisbee
Helper
8 Oct
I know this was posted in the past but I’m loving me for exactly who iam❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
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Bear
9 Oct
I don’t the fit in the LGBT community and could fucking care less about it anymore.
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Full Moon
10 Oct
I’m bi but I feel like I’m ace and/ or aro and I don’t know to figure it out.
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Fox
Helper
10 Oct
I was genuinely interested in a person and things was going well then he just ghosted me I’m hurt
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Whale
Helper
12 Oct
A wizard asked me to proof read one of his scrolls last week... Actually it was more of a Spell Check… But when it came to become a book… I had you make sure it was Spell Binding!!! 😂🤣😂
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Elephant
14 Oct
Dealing with dysphoria and dysmorphia and i hate myself so much that i resort to SH. fuck this. my mom will never understand me.
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Bear
14 Oct
Some of the most comforting words in human interaction are “me too.” That moment when you find out that your struggle is also someone else’s struggle, that you are not alone in this journey and you feel the comfort from being heard and safe in their presence. 🤗
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Honeybee
15 Oct
Help…. Anyone else out there willing to chat about there first time dating a cis man>>>> I’m an enby who has always been pan but I’m having a rough go at this
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Tennis
15 Oct
So the girl am talking to, we confessed that we have feelings for each other…. We are in a long distance relationship,,,,, the thing is she told me today that she love me emotionally but not sexuality ( the sentence itself annoyed me so much guys) idk what to say
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Tennis
Helper
15 Oct
Is anyone free to chat? I need advice on something🥺
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Tiger
15 Oct
How to show my man way more that I love him so much and care so much for him so he knows in a different way and I just don’t know any more ways to show him in I have already tried some ways but if u guys have any good ones just comment thanks for the help :)
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Lemon
Tuesday
I’m confused
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Lemon
Tuesday
Hi everyone
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Deciduous Tree
Wednesday
I’m also confused. I think I might be asexual but I’m not sure, anyone know how I can find out ?
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Octopus
Wednesday
Is anyone available to talk 😔
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Bear
7:38 PM
Being single is better than being manipulated/abused and hurt. Be single and own it. Give yourself what you’re missing, be who you need and prioritize self love! 💜
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