Had an early dating scan today- 10 weeks. Due in January. Haven’t spoken to the baby’s dad for over a week. Don’t even know how to get hold of him but I sent him a text, no idea if he’ll get it if he’s blocked me. Giving him a link to see the baby on an app they’ve saved videos etc. Just so mad and disappointed in him that he doesn’t care 😭🥺😡 just breaks my heart
I’m sorry you’re going through this alone. You done your best to involve him the rest is up to him if he wants. I hope you have good friends and/or family for support.
I’m due in December and I can relate - the father ignored my messages for over a month. Once I got the dating ultrasound pics I sent them via email and after Father’s Day this year passed, he messaged me. I’m not sure what’s worse - him saying he wants updates of the baby from time to time just for his info or when he was ignoring me. I know now he cares about the baby which is good, but he definitely does not care about me which hurts because I would not have let him get me pregnant without caring about him.
You may find he’ll just keep popping in and out during your pregnancy. Which i would find worse I think mentally. I’m actually quite relieved that he’s done and I’m happy to concentrate on my life and my baby without him popping in and out.