I don’t know how to cope with not being able to have my emotionally abusive mother in my life, while also feeling like I need a mother figure.
I am going through the same thing. I will be moving in 6 months. I need to go because of her. It just hurts thinking about not talking. I'm sorry you're going through this too.
That’s a hard decision to make, but man I’m proud of you. Gotta do what’s best for you in the long run, and sometimes loving someone doesn’t mean having them in your life. Self love is a bitch but I promise you’ve got this
I felt this a lot. 💜
And it’s even hard if the person is elderly. You tend to feel like you want to help