Honestly, I’m in the same boat. Message me if you want to vent, and talk this out? Because I sure would want to. Thanks.
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I recently just turned 30 and I have been blessed with a beautiful son who means everything to me. Clichéd as it seems, I have always dreamed of falling in love, getting married, having a big family but life happened, I had a child out of wedlock. Currently, things with baby daddy and I are not so good and I've reached a point where im fed up with his nonsense because I can't keep doing this back and forth with him. Yet in the same breath I really want my dream wedding and a big family. My struggle is not that I fear to leave baby daddy but that I can not imagine myself raising my son in a not so typical (controversial) home and probably having to carry another mans "seed" again. I do not want my child be raised by "2 daddies" and in the mix of that having a half sister/brother. No judgment on those who do it but that's not how I was raised and I do not want to raise my children like that either. Can someone please advice on what I should do. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place P. S please don't judge
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Now I gotta ask, does how old your dating profile pictures matter? Like is there a certain time limit before you should take them down and put new ones up? Like for an example, I’m currently having a discussion with a girl that I met online last night about how my photos are from 2 years ago
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I feel like women put waaaaaaaaay too much pressure on men to be charismatic and confident. Like seriously I feel like women are way to impressed and insistent in the idea that a romantic partner be “confident.” And I feel many women really don’t perceive to what degree they act like audience members in conversations with potential romantic partners as if they’re sitting back trying to see how funny/interesting YOU are. Not trying to get you to see whether or not they’re someone interesting or fun. On that note, I really don’t think women perceive how much they see male romantic partners as being responsible for their entertainment & hold them almost solely accountable for keeping a romantic relationship exciting if one actually does form.
Nobody wants to say it but I don’t care and I’m not scared. Non-Black people don’t want to admit that they think Black people are ugly or, at minimum, the least attractive race. Even if they don’t want to admit they consciously think that, they know they have the least desire to date Black people. And you guys can try to say I’m wrong all you want, but it’s true & I see it literally everyday in who people find desirable and who they think are ugly.
Hey, I'm new here but somewhat careful about opening up. DM me if you can offer me some advice?
Before getting into a relationship, make sure and be keen on how your relationship is with yourself