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Lemon
Saturday
How do I deal with an on again off again relationship? There is obe guy who wanta to be with me, even though Im in a temporary (maybe long term?) Relationship with bf
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Lemon
Saturday
I dont have any experience with love or relationships and now Im having to deal with my personal love triangle. I dont have time to be monitoring this mess
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HedgehogHelper
Saturday
That was easy!
My beloved sister and I haven’t spoken in the last 3 years or so after she fired me as her sister.
(I *think* I even understand why she did. She took this idea of getting rid of toxic relationships to mean ditch everybody (and I do mean everybody) without even the slightest inkling that she’s the primary toxin :0)
Been on my mind so much lately to reach out so I just did. All that pondering whether or not it was a good idea and I just picked up the phone and dialed.
VM. May or may not mean she was screening her calls but that’s not really my problem. I stretched my little box out a little and just called
Yay me!! 🎉🎉🎉
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Sunflower
Saturday
Hi! So here is the deal, Ive been in a relationship for like 8 months and we've had sex but I never gave him head or jerked him off cause it has always stressed me and I dont know why... he never asked for it but im really beginning to feel bad about it amd I wanna do it but Im kindda stressed/scared (for unknown reasons) any tips ? 😅
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HedgehogHelper
Sunday
Something I struggle with is being chill during the flirtation stage. Any tips for staying Calm, Cool and Collective?
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GrapesHelper
Sunday
Been in an abusive relationship & it’s only escalating. I’m feeling trapped to say the least; when I want to leave he threatens to commit suicide. I feel guilty but I am no longer in love with him, especially since he is controlling and doesn’t trust me. I’ve isolated myself from my friends and family bcuz of him since they’re tired of seeing him mistreat me. He’s forced his codependency on me. He even works @ my pt job the same shift as me n I feel like I can never get away. Yet I’ll feel guilty when I am away. I know this is unhealthy but I don’t know how to get out, especially as I’ve mentioned before it’s escalating. I fear either he’ll kill me for leaving or I’ll kill him for staying. Pls help me
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Tennis
Sunday
Hie family.. do men forget their ex after breaking up a relationship of 4yrs
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Mango
Monday
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years and I loved her so much but things were getting toxic. She would constantly lie about lots of things. She would tell me that she’s doing things to help support us like get a new job and get her drivers license. But I found out she never applied for any jobs and never practiced for the licence and was basically planning to go in and fail. I broke up with her and I felt like it was the right decision but now I can’t help but feel empty without her and want her back but I know she’ll fuck around with me again so I’m lost
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Ice Cream
Monday
Do any of you compare yourselves to your partner? I’ve been getting jealous of my bf for finding contentment at a new job. I’ve also been jealous that he has good relationships w/his siblings, and he has a really good group of long-time friends. I’m happy for him, of course. But I’m sad for me.
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Ice CreamHelper
Monday
My ex girlfriend has recently got back in touch with me and we have started talking again. We met up the other night and we went on a walk and she talked about how much she missed me and wants us to be friends. Since the day we went on the walk I’ve asked her two times if she wants to go on a walk again and she’s said no. I’m so confused, what should I do ?
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Duck
Monday
I need some advice or your opinion. If you have felt empty and not loved for years. What would you do to help the relationship. This is what my husband had justified as his excuse for cheating. He says he loves me and that is the way he is still with me. I've been putting him through a rough time because of my pain. My mind won't shut off. Is it time.for me to walk away?
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Violin
Monday
My boyfriend offends me makes me cry and then doesn’t look over at me or anything when I cry I am so confused I don’t know what this means.
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Mushroom
Tuesday
Is blocking someone you used to talk to (and like) immature? I was considering doing it, as things did not work out, but I don’t want to seem very petty and immature by doing so. I’d just be doing it to avoid seeing their page and posts. I wouldn’t be doing it to be nasty or childish; it’s more so to just avoid any further upset by seeing their posts. Sorry if it seems like a stupid question, and I know the answer is subjective really, but I just wanted some type of reassurance because I don’t want to seem nasty or like I’m being funny.
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TennisHelper
Tuesday
Anyone here that can offer some advice about a poly relationship?
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Canoe
Tuesday
Is it normal to have internal conflict and not having too much trust once you start living with your S/o. We got engaged a day before we met but we have talked for 6+ months before we got engaged . I have a lot of internal conflicts. Is this normal .
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Chipmunk
Tuesday
If I made a community for Myers Briggs personality tests would anyone join? U could talk to people who have the same personality as u and find out more about urself.
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Full Moon
Tuesday
I’m not looking for anyone to tell me to leave, I already know that and choose not to, it’s my choice even if it’s one of the dumbest choice I had made. I just want to get this off my chest cause I have nobody to talk to.
TW : attempt su*c*d*, mental illness
Last week I tried for the 3rd time this year to kill myself and ended up in psychiatry, my boyfriend obviously didn’t helped when I asked him for help before doing so and just made me feel even more bad so does when I told him I was at the hospital, which I can understand him calling me selfish and being hostile but then once I got back home he expected me to act "normal" and started going off on me for never being here for him and always being selfish when I dedicated everything to this relationship, sacrificed my whole wellbeing for his selfish butt, he is as selfish as I am but the difference is I’m not bragging about all the time I’ve been there for him and done things for me.
Since we couldn’t flight to get married abroad cause he got tested positive things just taking another turn because I’m not doing good, he won’t give me time to rest and collect myself while I’m supposed to and let him do so, ofc this is not even 20% of everything
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Chipmunk
Tuesday
I’ve made group on here about the 16 Myers Briggs personality types. If u know your personality type, or want to know feel free to join or message me for an invite.
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frisbee
Tuesday
Is it possible that I’m just not capable of reciprocating romantic love?
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frisbee
Wednesday
My friend of 10 years argues with me alot. She came over to my house for the 1st time and after chatting with my landlord about his time working in Africa she asked if he'd ever go back and he said "no because of my dialysis i have to stay in the US" and after asking if he's on a waiting list for a kidney she mentioned that he should keep his options open and search for black market organs on the dark web.
She said she was justified in what she said because my landlord "overshared" by answering her question with the fact that he relies on dialysis to survive.
I will never invite her over again and do not plan on seeing her in person again after she intentionally endangered my living situation. She has hassled my landlords before, but only the Mexican ones, not the white ones. r/AITA?
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PandaHelper
Wednesday
I dony really need advice csuse I know what is right but I just need someone to talk too about my situation.
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Maple Leaf
Wednesday
So my fiancé and I have been together for almost 6 years. He used to be so gentle and kind, now he’s constantly getting angry or annoyed. I feel like more of a bother to him than a positive in this relationship. He almost never has joy or happiness when we’re together, and I consistently ask if he’s upset or angry (which makes him angry) because it’s that hard to tell with him, almost emotionless.
When we’re with other people (like his friends) he is laughing and joking around and having a great time, but one on one it’s never like that. I just need advice on how to approach this situation because I’m the past when I have, it’s never gone well.
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Panda
Wednesday
My boyfriend & i make 3 years in 2 weeks but we been bumping heads more than ever & it really sucks. We are just becoming different people but i can still see the potential but if im being honest im not happy, but i also love him very much so im super torn..
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Hedgehog
Wednesday
I wake up every morning to my ex messaging me to get rid of our unborn baby it’s been going on for 2 weeks now and it’s getting worse. He threatened to kill his self if I don’t - I’m definitely having this baby but 😭😭😭😭 abusive comments are NOT THE ONE! Any tips/ help I’m getting so depressed and I’m 2 months pregnant !!
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Sunflower
12:00 AM
As a man I’m not perfect I have my flaws I don’t really have an relationship experience since I started off late on the dating scene I’m not a drinker so I don’t believe in going to any club or bar to meet anyone and I’m a homebody and all I do is work and come home but I also do online chatting to see if I can find someone with the same qualities as me and common interests and goals.I keep it real and show the person what type of character I poses and what I have to offer in a relationship.I always explain that I rather find a friend first so we can start off slow then gradually get to know one another before making any full commitment.The reason is my last relationship was horrible because we were always fighting and didn’t get along and we were like oil and water.I tried to tell my ex that I don’t like arguing and I would rather just cool down and come back later and talk things out so we can see what problems we have that needs fixing.But all she wanted to do was hit me,even though I’d walk away she’d follow me and hit me some more and that’s why I need to find someone that’s my best friend first before anything.A lot of people have told me I’m looking for a serious relationship and I get that we all do but if you don’t get to know the person first how are you going to jump into a relationship?Right now I want a forever partner I want someone that when I’m down they are there for me and vice versa that if we have any issues we talk things out.I don’t want anyone else but them they satisfy me both emotionally first then physically it’s hard to get but I’m trying I just don’t want to end up in a loveless relationship again
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Canoe
4:38 AM
Came back to see my parents first time after being engaged and I am so sad. For the first time in my life, I feel my dad’s love and care and sacrifices so deeply. I don’t know. I have been silently crying for an hour now. My fiancé is not with me either . I am not sure if it’s the distance or I am just sad that I can’t do much to help my parents . Not let them work .💔😭 I am just deeply sad.
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Sled
6:36 AM
Something told me to come on here instead of the app I originally was going to go on. If anyone wants to chat for a bit or needs someone to talk to I'll be on 🤙
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MushroomHelper
6:49 AM
My bf and I quit weed for dry July cause we are stoners and needed a break but now he's getting drunk most of the time and wants to do acid and it makes me feel like shit cause I feel like he's not happy unless he's drunk or drugged up
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