Do any of you compare yourselves to your partner? I’ve been getting jealous of my bf for finding contentment at a new job. I’ve also been jealous that he has good relationships w/his siblings, and he has a really good group of long-time friends. I’m happy for him, of course. But I’m sad for me.
Always continue to build your own friendships. It helps! You will no longer feel this negative feeling and can be happy for yourself
To be honest it’s very common it’s your minds eat if subconsciously not feeling good enough for them and it masks itself as jealousy
Been through it at times in my marriage. Hit a bit harder during the pandemic as my wife's job was still intact because it was in the finance industry. My wasn't in education and teaching after school programs. It takes a lot of discussion to highlight when these feelings surface every now and then. Make sure they get dealt with in a trusting space.