How do I tell the guys I like that I'm unable to meet with them due to my financial situation - without telling them my financial situation? Meaning, I cannot afford uber to go meet up with them & then take Uber back. Even public transit can get expensive over time
Just simply be honest or just say due to a few circumstances at home, you’re incapable rn. If he really likes you, he should be understanding of that and/or even PICKING U UP!
tell them straight.
No offense, but this wasn't helpful. I don't think they'd understand that I don't make enough money to pay for Uber. 2 of the guys have great jobs. One of them has a car & the other doesn't. Both live in different cities that I can get to, but Uber is a bit expensive. Plus, the pay structure at my job is very frustrating & annoying because I get paid every 2.5wks (3 weeks, really). Idk if the guy from one cities who has a car would come get me. It is not like I know either of the guys very well.
Then maybe u need to start going after guys in your financial bracket.
So in my case it’s about disability, but finances play a part as well. It may help to be more directive, “ sounds great. What time can you pick me up?” If you’re not comfortable with that nor are you in the financial position to meet up with them then you may have to resolve to only date more locally until you’re in a better position for commuting.
If he is uncomfortable picking you up then your present circumstances wouldn’t be compatible to date that person anyway