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Deciduous TreeAuthor
27 Jul
I want to begin dating again, any recommendations?
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Hedgehog
27 Jul
Well, I’m following this thread! Hehe, as a male, I can say having a confident woman just come up to you quite attractive. We’ll have to get a woman’s perspective! And + . Wishing you THEE best!
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Sled
27 Jul
Hello there. I'd say take it slow. Take your time in deciding what you're looking for, expecting and what outcome you would like to see happen from getting back out there. I'd also say throw away all your previous expectations from dating because you'd be surprised at how different it may be this time around. It's not going to be easy so keep that in mind. Don't give up so soon, the reward for you will be much greater once you find exactly what you're looking for. Communication and being open about intentions is key. Do simple meet and greets instead of extravagant dates to get a feel first if there's any chemistry before going down that road. Some people are different in person compared to over the phone but it's expected. Don't hold it against them as they may be nervous or something along those lines. The main thing I would say is trust your instincts no matter what and be patient. The more you both talk and open up you'll get a better sense of different things you wouldn't otherwise notice. Be open minded, know that every persons situation is different and can always change. More importantly, have fun and enjoy the journey. It's not the S.A.T's so try not to over think things lol. Good luck and I truly hope that you're able to find life long happiness from it 🙏🙂🤙🤠
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Hedgehog
27 Jul
This. Great advice!
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HedgehogHelper
27 Jul
Not that it applies to you (?) but try to spend more time getting to know them and building a potential friendship than you do wondering if they could “be the one”. I hadn’t really thought about it before you asked but that is just as impersonal as going out on a date hoping to “score”.
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OwlHelper
9 Aug
I don’t know anything about you, so I can’t really give any advice. But I’ll say this…online dating is horrible! Lol. Just a quick warning for you. I was trying to date again for the first time in many years not long ago. Online dating was a real nightmare. Then again, all dating is kinda horrible. I like to take things slow. Seems like that’s not really the norm these days
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