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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
Is it normal to have internal conflict and not having too much trust once you start living with your S/o. We got engaged a day before we met but we have talked for 6+ months before we got engaged . I have a lot of internal conflicts. Is this normal .
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HedgehogHelper
27 Jul
It could be any number of things going on… So you guys got engaged and then you actually met each other? Sometimes we have a hard time letting ourselves be happy. Or maybe you’re instincts are trying to warn you something is off.
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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
We talked for 6+ months. Met a day before the engagement and then got engaged next day. I know he is a good guy and has a good job. I also have anxiety and it’s been a crazy ride. My I can’t figure out the gut instinct. That’s what I am scared about . Besides that, everything is fine.
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DolphinHelper
27 Jul
What’s triggering distrust?
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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
That he is street smart. Knows how to get what he wants. I wouldn’t call him manipulative but he is smart. I don’t have much of the social skills or interpersonal skill. I am a straight forward person. Just say what I think and feel but he is different. He talks and does thing with thinking.
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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
I do complain and get mad.
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DolphinHelper
28 Jul
It sounds like it might be beneficial to both of you to research healthier, more constructive communication approach is for a couples. You may find that by doing that many of these concerns become solvable
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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
I guess that works lmao
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CanoeAuthor
27 Jul
Honestly I under high stress , I get panic attacks 🥲😭
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