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Deciduous TreeAuthor
31 May
Am I a coward for not fighting him off? 😢 it’s happened 3 times already and I’m scared to fight and to tell someone 😞 The second time was the worst coz he thought I was asleep but when I confronted him he denied everything. He’s my partner and I really do love him but he doesn’t understand the word “no” “it hurts” or ”can you stop”. He’ll usually say “no I’m not gonna stop” and carry on So I don’t fight. 😢 I cry myself to sleep every night. Iv never lived on my own and I don’t know how to. Living with someone to help me do day to day things is all I know 😢 I just really need a friend rn.
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OwlGuide
1 Jun
You are not a coward, Tan. He is completely in the wrong. I'm so sorry he's treating you this way. If you've already tried to confront him about his behaviour and he refuses to stop, perhaps it's time to try and find a safer place if you can? What do you need right now lovely? We're here for you 💜
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Deciduous TreeAuthor
1 Jun
I have no where to go, his parents said I had to move here, they told me if I didn’t get on a train and move here within the next 24hrs then they’ll tell my partner I was cheating on him when I wasn’t, all because I had a lot of friends that was guys and I was always with them either plays football or smoking weed. And that they’ll phone the police on me because apparently I was helping my parents abuse my little sister which was a complete lie, me and my siblings had the best parents, they never laid a finger on us not once 😢 and I never hurt my sister, I protected her from her bullies. My parents live near London and I’m in Nottinghamshire. Iv been here for 3yrs and I haven’t made any friends because his parents wouldn’t let me. So I’ve been alone.
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