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Evergreen TreeAuthor
20 May
Has anyone experience having a hard time to have sex with thier partner altering meting raped
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Full MoonSupervisor
20 May
Very common. It takes patience and time. Allow yourself that
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Evergreen TreeAuthor
20 May
Thank you
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PineappleHelper
20 May
Ofcourse alot of people do. Like momma bear said just allow yourself time and be patient and your partner needs to be as well
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Evergreen TreeAuthor
20 May
Thank you
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Mushroom
25 May
Yes, I was unable to do it without having flashbacks and/or panic attacks. It took finding someone who truly understood boundaries and consent and was willing to be hypervigilant about my body language and mental state during the act. Take it in slow steps with someone who you trust fully. You can stop at any point to cry/process it if you need to. Try not to feel guilty or get upset with yourself when you are unable to finish or start having sex. It’s a process and it takes time but it really does get better.
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