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Full MoonAuthor
26 Jul
Any advice for a guy choosing someone else instead of you after you shared a real and amazing connection? 😔
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FoxGuide
26 Jul
I’ve been their but with a girl and crazy thing is they will soon want to know you if you got with some own else. And it’s always a shame when you have a connection but needs two to make it work.
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Full MoonAuthor
27 Jul
Yes I absolutely agree that he will be back! He told me he doesn’t want a relationship with her either, but he’s only going to be having “relations” with her. He’s a confused mess 🥴
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Mushroom
27 Jul
Hi, I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. I’ve been there myself (as in experienced this) and I won’t lie and say it’s easy, but you’ll get there in the end. It may take a bit of time to accept, but you’ll soon come to realise that person wasn’t meant for you and if he’s done that, you’re absolutely better off without him anyway and these things happen for a reason ❤️ feel free to message me directly if you’d to talk more and I hope you’re doing okay x
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Giraffe
27 Jul
I'm sorry for that, my advice for you just walk little back if he choose someone else you can't be stuck there better walk away
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Hedgehog
27 Jul
I used to blame myself after a relationship failed. I used to constantly think why am I not good enough for him to choose me instead of someone else and that made me feel inferior to someone else. I was having all these negative thoughts because I compared myseld to the new person my ex was with. I had to change my negative mindset by realizing that what my ex chooses to do after the breakup has nothing to do with me. Its better for me to dissociate myself from what happens to my ex after I left his life. I am able to not to take it too personally by not directing the situation towards me.
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