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WhaleAuthor
17 Jul
So you meet a girl off a dating app and chat to them abit before meeting then meet up and you think you get along.. so we been chatting/kinda seeing each other for a few months.. she was meant to stay the night the last minute changes her mind.. I feel so hurt and stuck..
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UmbrellaHelper
17 Jul
Maybe it’s not you maybe she has depression and anxiety that’s why. Are you still talking if so maybe tell her you would love to meet again and that your nervous to maybe she meet you then because you feel the same way
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WhaleAuthor
17 Jul
I’ve seen her bout 10 times so it won’t be that.. I just feel so used and hurt.. I’ve made a effort.. when we meet up all we do is hang out at my place she never wants to go out and do fun stuff.. and she’s told no one bout me..
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UmbrellaHelper
17 Jul
Talk to her how you feel if doesn’t seem to change do couple therapy and if that doesn’t work call it off there’s nothing else for you to do there other fish in sea she just not the one for you if she’s not willing to change
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UmbrellaHelper
17 Jul
I understand how you feel I was going meet someone off Facebook dating site and she told me she was in middle of a divorce and I ask her to meet me and she called me so I got excited because she was trans and I wanted to hear person voice well turn out to be there wife and she told me there won’t be no meeting n to block her well I didn’t block them because wasn’t sure if she had jealous x and I comment on the person picture and I got blocked I’m upset to because I wanted to be friends and I have no friends
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WhaleAuthor
17 Jul
Ooh I’m really sorry that really sucks 🙁
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WhaleAuthor
17 Jul
Yeh I just don’t know what to do bout this girl.. I just wish she would be honest with me and say how she feels. Would be so much easier..
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WhaleAuthor
17 Jul
Nah we aren’t in a relationship so wouldn’t do couple therapy.. might have a chat to her eventually tho
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