Daily affirmation: ✨I am kind to others but most importantly I am kind to myself ✨ (Sorry for it being late today I am sick but better late than never.) Have a great day everyone! 😊
On many occasions now, people have taken advantage of me. My parents say it’s because of my kind behaviour. I’m the type to always help someone, and can almost never say no. As such, I give in to peer pressure a lot and end up regretting on my decisions. I really want to stop this habit but I don’t want to act mean to anyone
I’ve been there before! I had to learn to say no to people. Saying no and creating boundaries is not mean at all, it just means that you are putting yourself first. Some people may not like it but that’s because they are just used to getting their way. That’s what I believe is being kind to yourself as well
What if after I refuse they start being rude (happened every time I declined someone’s offer). I still need to see this person everyday. Do you still say hi regardless?
Ya I know that can still be difficult. I tell them how much I care for them but I still continue to say that I cannot do what they are asking. They may be mad but if your relationship is important to them they will get over it.
Thank you very much. Means a lot. Haven’t had anyone tell me this before. Didn’t think much of the app (just joined btw) until now.
Well welcome to Wisdo Zoubeir! 😊